Plura

Rethinking Breakups: a guide to de-escalation [Free for SuperBloomers]

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Workshop description

The idea of ending or even changing a relationship dynamic with someone, is terrifying, partly because we fear losing someone we have grown intimate with and because of the messaging we've received about romantic partnerships from dominant culture leading us to view breaking up, or even a relationship taking on a different form, as the relationship failing. This idea keeps people in relationship dynamics that are no longer serving them, barring them from their own authentic needs and desires. Championing our own autonomy and our partner's(s) is crucial, in welcoming shifts to our relationships if something is not working for us. 

This Workshop dives into all things having to do with major relationship shifts, and how to move them with compassion, grace and self assuredness.

  • Tools on how to initiate and welcome ALL major changes in relationships
  • Deepened understanding of the "relationship escalator" and how it influences why we stay in relationship structures that no longer serve us
  • Templates, ceremonies and rituals on how to have a conscious, proactive and loving decoupling 

Educators Bio

Bear & Fifi are New York City-based Intimacy Coaches, Community Consultants, Event Producers, and Educators. Their work challenges social binaries and standards, addresses the personal barriers that limit human connection, and offers alternative ways of relating that center consent & safety, authenticity, and personal agency on an interpersonal and communal scale. @bear.n.fifi

EVENT IMAGE by Alexander Milov