A gothic sanctuary where darkness and mystery are not something to escape, but something to enter. Bathed in red light, sapphic beings will dance not simply for your consumption. Instead they dance as ritual. As a gift for your reverence.

This is a space where sapphic sxuality is celebrated, where darkness is embraced, and where the stage is an altar.

You do not enter SANCTUM OBSCURA to be entertained. You enter to worship.

TICKETS & MORE INFO:

https://www.flite.city/e/sanctum-obscura1

🩸𝔚𝔥𝔞𝔱 𝔱𝔬 𝔢𝔵𝔭𝔢𝔠𝔱🩸

Prepare yourself for a night of indulgence and connection. Our all-queer lineup of $trippers will lead you through a journey of sacred eroticism, including:

-Seductive pole and floor sets

-Ritualistic shibari performances

-A 1:1 $tripper 'confessional' room- Bring $$ ;)

-And other surprise rituals and performances

🩸𝔗𝔥𝔢 ℑ𝔫𝔱𝔢𝔫𝔱𝔦𝔬𝔫🩸

Created by a dancer with over six years in the industry, and just as many years of frustration with how it often fails to honor the very people that sustain it. SANCTUM OBSCURA is my way of honoring those who make this exchange possible. My intention is to cultivate a space that honors all of the things I have found lacking in the industry, and make it a ritual.

Here, safety and consent are top priority and non-negotiable. Every dancer is treated as a reverent being, and tipping is not optional but a part of the ritual. This is not a space for free consumption. This is an offering of your generosity and admiration. Dancers are deeply valued and prioritized above all else.

🩸𝔄𝔰 𝔞 𝔭𝔞𝔱𝔯𝔬𝔫 𝔬𝔣 𝔰𝔞𝔫𝔠𝔱𝔲𝔪 𝔬𝔟𝔰𝔠𝔲𝔯𝔞🩸

To enter this space, you must:

-Be queer or femme identifying

-Respect the boundaries of every performer. Absolutely no touching

-Understand that this is a space for offering, not just consuming. These women are generously sharing their erotic expression with you, come prepared to worship through financial exchange. (We’ll have ones to exchange.)

-Treat every dancer with the reverence they deserve. They are the heart of this space, and they are here to be worshipped

-And of course enjoy and indulge yourself in all the beautiful gifts they share with you

🩸𝔚𝔥𝔬 t𝔥𝔦𝔰 i𝔰 (𝔞𝔫𝔡 i𝔰𝔫’𝔱) f𝔬𝔯🩸

-This is a space primarily for the queer identifying; the sapphics, girls, gays, and theys. Always trans inclusive in the terms

-No cis-het men allowed. Absolutely no exceptions

-Yes, straight women and GAY men are welcome as long as you are prepared to worship accordingly

-Gay men must attend with a woman

-Tipping is mandatory for everyone, regardless of identity

-Any violation of these policies will result in immediate removal from the space. Security will be enforcing these guidelines strictly. Any cis-het men who show up will be turned away at the door. No refunds given to those who violate these terms either.

🩸𝔇𝔯𝔢𝔰𝔰 ℭ𝔬𝔡𝔢🩸

Come dressed as if attending a vampire midnight mass. Interpret that as you will, but we encourage you to lean into it.

🩸𝔏𝔬𝔠𝔞𝔱𝔦𝔬𝔫🩸

This is a private event, held in a secret location in downtown San Diego. We will share the venue details with you the week of the event via email. No tickets will be sold at the door. To attend, please include your preferred email when purchasing your ticket.

🩸𝔈𝔵𝔱𝔯𝔞 𝔇𝔢𝔱𝔞𝔦𝔩𝔰🩸

As mentioned before, tipping is mandatory. While the ticket price may initially feel steep, be assured in knowing it is in an effort to cultivate a more reverent space for our performers. It is important for me to prioritize my budget toward them so they feel valued for their exchange. To eradicate any of the issues I have seen of free consumption in the industry $20 is added to your ticket price for tipping purposes. Erotic expression is beautiful, vulnerable, intimate, and something of deep value. You can use this money for stage tipping, 1:1 experiences, or to offer it to any performers you feel particularly impacted by. We will also have additional ones for those feeling exxxtra generous ;)

TICKETS & MORE INFO:

https://www.flite.city/e/sanctum-obscura1