Santa Cruz Polyam Happy Hour! 🍻

What: Poly Happy Hour! (& Discussion)

When: **FEBRUARY ONLY** 1st/3rd Wednesday of the month @6.30pm

(*normally* 2nd Wednesday of the month @6.30pm)

Where: **Seabright Social**, Santa Cruz, CA

Who: non-monogamous people & those who love usΒ β€οΈπŸŒˆπŸ³οΈβ€βš§οΈ


Current plan for the evening goes like this:

* 6:30 - 7:00: warm-up (arrive, find the table, grab a drink, chat)

* 7:00 - 7:45: guided group discussion (only if the group chat is lagging, so far it hasn't lol)

* 7:45 - 8:00: interlude / quick break (stretch legs, refresh drink, etc)

* 8:00 - 9:00: mix & mingle


We aim to be an inclusive, intersectional group. We declare:

* normal non-monogamy is ethical

* normal non-monogamy doesn't include betrayal (cheating)

* hierarchy = couple's privilege (pattern of prioritizing the couple, for reasons)

* couple seeking a third = UH

* throuples / moresomes are only ethical if they form organically

* boundaries dictate personal choices, rules dictate the choices of others

* OPPs are homophobic & controlling

* the group creator is a woman, her dog is a female

* consent = enthusiastic, informed, ongoing β€œYES”; anything less = nope


Come hang out with us!


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