Plura

Sapphic speed dating + Dinner

Step into a golden-hour patio where the lights are soft, the heaters are cozy, and the river glimmers in the background. This is a space for sapphics to meet face-to-face, laugh, linger, and feel that flutter of butterflies.

This is sapphic speed dating reimagined: slower, sweeter, and intentionally designed for connection that feels real. You’ll be guided through short, heart-centered conversations that spark curiosity and chemistry.

Think of it as a blend of flirty date night energy and a supportive community circle — a space where connection can unfold naturally.

For all those who identify as sapphic craving real, heart-fluttering connection.

🌿 Event Details

  1. When: Thursday, Oct 30, 4–7 PM
  2. Where: Private outside patio at Luma Eatery & Bar, 50 E Washington St, Petaluma, CA
  3. Who: 20 sapphics
  4. Cost: $25 + your drinks/dinner

🕓 Schedule

  1. 4:00 PM — Check-in & drinks on the patio
  2. 4:15 PM — Welcome & introductions
  3. 4:30 PM — Guided mini-conversations with rotating partners
  4. 6:00 PM — Dinner (wait-staff takes orders)
  5. 6:50 PM — Gift basket giveaway from a local sapphic business
  6. 7:00 PM — Event ends (stay as long as you like for dinner and lingering connection)

(Dinner may last till 7:30 or 8, as 20 guests ordering simultaneously could slow things down)

💫 Sensory-Friendly Space

  1. All neuro-types welcome
  2. Outdoors with airflow
  3. No overhead music
  4. Scent-free (please avoid perfumes & essential oils)
  5. Bring noise-canceling headphones, earbuds, or stim toys if helpful
  6. Hosted by an autistic facilitator, embracing her own stim needs

Your comfort comes first — do what feels good, wear what feels good!

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