Sapphic Spice / OASIS: A Pool & Play Party for Femmes (21+)

Sapphic Spice is a play party built by and for sapphics. Our mission is to create an intentional space for community and play that centers femme desire without the male gaze or outside spectators. Whether you’re here to get tied up, make out by the pool, or enjoy community with fellow kinky queers, we’re here for joy, connection, and femme-for-femme heat.

Expect:

💋 Femme-for-femme energy

🖤 Heated pool & hot tub (clothing optional)

🔥 Outdoor firepit + mountain views

🎶 Neon-lit studio with floor-to-ceiling mirrors for play

🍷 Cocktails & snacks

⛓ Kink furniture, play spaces, bedrooms & endless temptation

All attendees are vetted by our team. Do not buy a ticket unless you’ve received an acceptance email.

Get vetted HERE!

FAQ

Dress Code: Street legal until the door. After that? Whatever makes you feel sexy and powerful. Casual, fetish wear, lingerie, and nudity are all welcome. Swimsuits are optional in the pool.

Parking: Ample street parking available. We encourage carpooling or rideshare.

Accessibility: Need mobility or sensory accommodations? Email us ahead of time so we can support you.

House Rules

21+ only. ID will be checked.

Vetted attendees only. If you haven’t been approved, you’re not invited. Period. This space is exclusively for femme-presenting sapphics.

No plus ones. Only vetted attendees will be allowed. Yes, we will check.

Consent is law. Ask before you touch. Every time. Don’t assume, even with past partners. “No” is a full sentence. “Maybe” still means no.

Phones: Once you’re in the play space, phones are off-limits. Want a pic? Ask a DM first. Phones are okay in the pool area, but pictures are not.

Play responsibly, clean up after. Wipe down toys and furniture. Don’t ruin the hardwood by dripping pool water everywhere.

Substance use: If you’re too altered to consent, you’re too altered to play. Play before you drink. No hard drugs, no non-medical weed. No sex in the pool.

Towels = bring your own.

Swimsuits = optional.

Toys, lube, fluids = keep them out of the water.

Prohibited Activities:

Always forbidden: solo-pleasure, breath play, race play

By approval only (ask a Hostess or DM): wax play, fire play, knife play, electro play, messy play

Pool vs Play: We encourage guests to stick to one zone at a time- either be in kink mode or poolside mode. Don’t ruin the hardwood, please!

Genital play: Allowed (hands, mouths, toys). Barriers encouraged. Safer sex = hotter sex.

Not a 101 space. This is for experienced kinksters who know their limits, their aftercare, and how to negotiate like pros.