Guests are welcome to attend either event or both.
This is not a free-play event and not a full-scene party. It is an opportunity to linger, socialize, and experience a wide range of kink styles in short, curated tasters led by skilled house tops - then and decide what you might want more of later.
Think of it as a tasting menu: small bites, distinct flavors, no obligation to commit to a full course.
Throughout the night, multiple house tops will be stationed in the open play area, each offering brief sampler experiences in one or more of their areas of expertise. These tasters are intentionally short and focused - enough to give you a feel for the style, sensation, or dynamic, without becoming a full scene.
Offerings depend on which house tops are present. Examples may include:
Guests do not play with each other at this event. All sampler experiences are facilitated exclusively by house tops.
Guests are welcome to attend either party or both. Savor ticket holders will receive a special link in their ticket confirmation email for a discounted ticket to Nectar.
Each sampler station will have a sign-up sheet. Guests are invited to put their name down for any tasters that interest them, then relax and enjoy the space while waiting for their turn.
While you wait, you can:
This structure keeps the energy calm, organized, and accessible - especially for guests who enjoy watching, learning, or easing in slowly.
Savor is about exposure and education, not endurance or intensity.
Savor will be held at Paradox, featuring:
The environment is designed to feel open, grounded, and welcoming, whether you are trying something new or simply soaking it all in.
For those who want more after they’ve sampled, the night continues.
Immediately following Savor, we invite you to Nectar, a full-scale play party held at Stopgap. Whereas Savor is about tasting, Nectar is where you settle in and indulge.
Attend one, or make a night of both.
We warmly invite and encourage individuals of all ages, races, ethnicities, gender identities, sexual orientations, and abilities to attend our event. We are committed to creating an inclusive and welcoming environment where everyone can feel safe, respected, and celebrated. Your unique identity and experiences enrich our community, and we look forward to sharing this special experience with you. Consent and respectful behavior required. Read the event rules and consent guidelines.
The entrance to the space is on the ground floor and is fully-accessible, including coat check, social area, play area, and two accessible all-gender bathrooms. The mezzanine level above the bathrooms can only be reached via stairs. There will be music playing throughout the night, and ear plugs may be available at the front desk. There are colored lights in use throughout the venue, including moving “party lights” for ambiance. Cell phones may be prohibited from being used at the event venue and must be stored; however, you may speak to a host or DM about reasonable accommodations if needed for things such as continuous glucose monitoring..
All guests MUST take a rapid test on the day of the event, before arriving, and:
Dress in your version of kinky and/or sexy - whatever makes you feel like you are confident and ready to have some serious fun. You don’t have to be experienced - newcomers welcome. Please be mindful that you might have to wait in line outside (it may be cold) and that you are welcome to arrive in regular clothes and then change into your kinky outfit once you get inside!
Part of our responsibility in fostering a consent culture is to provide some guidance to help prevent consent incidents from happening at our events.
Please make sure you read and understand our event rules and consent guidelines before you come to any AfterDark event. By coming to an event you acknowledge that you understand the rules and agree to abide by them. If you have any questions or need clarification on any of our rules or guidelines please contact us before coming to an event.
Any consent concerns can be confidentially given to the hosts at the event or by email at info@afterdark-events.com.