SF: Submissives in Solidarity: A Submissives Discussion & Support Group

  • Hosted by Wicked Grounds
  • San Francisco, CA - address sent to ticket holders

Sometimes feel like you're the only one facing your joys and challenges as a submissive?

Wicked Grounds invites you to a monthly discussion group just for submissives and switches who would like to discuss submission. This is a dominant-free zone to connect with, support, and build solidarity with fellow submissives in the scene.

Together, we will:

- develop a sense of belonging by feeling understood and supported

- gain a supportive network, reducing feelings of isolation and enhancing community connection

- experience healthier relationships and reduced risk of harm by making informed choices about partners

- engage in play with greater confidence and security, ensuring a positive and safe experience for all parties involved

Each month, we'll explore a lightly facilitated topic around the joys and challenges of submission. Experienced moderator and facilitator Miriam Green will help guide the discussion and keep a safe container to explore your feelings and options.

This discussion group is open to all people currently exploring submission in their lives and relationships, regardless of whether you identify as a submissive, switch, or other some other term. All genders, all orientations, and all relationship styles are welcome here.

*Please note that this is not a therapy group, and is not a substitute for therapy! This is a peer-led group designed to create connection and support within our community.*


We offer a sliding scale, so that cost is not a barrier to attendance.

The regular ticket is $20. This is what most people should pay.

If that would be a barrier to attendance, you may use the $10 option. If you're able to be generous, paying the $30 option allows us to make tickets accessible to those who need the discount.

So - that's it! Choose the level you can comfortably afford.

If cost is a barrier at any point on the sliding scale, please use the Volunteer List at the bottom of the listing to request a scholarship seat.


Please do not attend in person if you have any respiratory symptoms whatsoever. Anyone displaying respiratory symptoms may be asked to leave, regardless of vaccination status.

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