SF: Wicked Grounds Presents: SpankLab!

  • Hosted by Wicked Grounds
  • San Francisco, CA - address sent to ticket holders
  • 84 people on the list

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SpankLab is something like a rope jam for impact play. We build community connections while learning skills from each other in a lighthearted, low-pressure space. SpankLab welcomes people new to the scene or curious about impact play, as well as experienced players looking to hone or expand their bottoming and topping skills. Bring toys if you have them, and wear whatever you like! @impossiblepain will be available throughout the event to monitor for safe play and as a resource for questions and hands-on instruction.

7 to 7:15: Impact play demo (different demo monthly!)

7:15 - ***DOORS CLOSE***

7:15–7:30: Review of rules and guidelines, toys, show-and-tell

7:30–9: Socialize, observe, and practice impact play!

SpankLab Rules & Guidelines

Further explanation will be provided at the event, but you can contact @impossiblepain or @WickedGrounds on FetLife, or email beforehand if you have questions

-    Ask before touching people

-    Ask before touching toys

-    Ask before giving feedback

-    Use common sense and trust your gut!

-    Sex-positive space, not sex-active

-    No phones or photography

-    Voyerism is participation — It’s okay to just watch

-    Dungeon etiquette review


impossiblepain is an impact switch, gleeful sadist, and accomplished masochist. They have been playing publicly with consensual violence since 2014. impossiblepain enjoys kink instruction that makes safe, creative, and whimsical play feel accessible to anyone. They have been hosting SpankLab since 2021.

You are welcome to follow them on FetLife! @impossiblepain


Tickets: $15–$35 in advance or at the door. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford. The regular ticket is $25. This is what most people should pay.


In SF, this class will be held at the Folsom Street Community Center, at 1286 Folsom Street, San Francisco, CA 94103, near 9th and Folsom.

Please do not attend in person if you have any respiratory symptoms whatsoever. Anyone displaying signs of respiratory symptoms may be asked to leave, regardless of vaccination status.

This event is an inclusive, queer, and sex-positive safe space.

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