Silent Disco Make Out Magic

A member of our household tested positive for Covid this morning, so we are cancelling this event and moving it to a date next month. More details will be coming soon....Rest assured, we WILL disco!

This consent-forward and neurodivergent-inclusive second base party is for folks who find loud parties overwhelming (like me!) but love connection, music, and kissing friends. The vibe is chill, playful, and low-pressure, with designated cuddle spaces and dreamy zones for makeouts. Here are some of the highlights:

The Dreamlit Dance Floor

No blasting speakers—this is silent disco style. Join our shared Spotify Jam Session, pop in your favorite earbuds or headphones, and dance at your perfect volume. A big screen shows what’s playing so you can jump in when your song hits.

The Enchanted Garden

The rest of the party hums with ultra-chill lo-fi beats for conversation, laughter, and quiet connection in our starlit backyard portals:

Sensory Spells — fidgets, squishies, and tactile treasures to ground your hands and mind.

Quiet Charms — eye masks, noise-canceling headphones, and a cozy nook for slipping into your own dreamland.

Fluff & Smooch Sanctuary — cloudlike cushions for snuggling, kissing, and outdoor second base fun.

Or venture indoors to find multiple cozy hollows:

Cuddle Cave— for sweet, platonic snuggles

Make-Out Meadow — kissing, above-the-waist exploration, tops optional—just no genital contact.

Grove of Plenty — Bring something to the food hall to share...main dishes, finger foods, side dishes, treats or beverages!

Ticket Options

General Admission = $50

Work Trade Roles Available:

Space Shifter — come to the house at some point in the week before the event and spend up to 3 hours helping to set the stage, and shift things as necessary for the event. ($0 ticket)

Light Bearer — come to the house at some point in the week before the event and string lights in the backyard. Must have experience, tools, and handyperson skills. ($0 ticket)

Realm Builders, aka Set Up — arrive 2 hours early to arrange fluff, set up backyard tents, and prep the space. ($20 ticket)

Realm Restorers, aka Strike — stay up to 2 hours after to reset furniture, break down tents, and clean up. ($20 ticket)

Gate Guardian — check people in, assist with Covid tests and name tags — arrive 1:45 PM. ($30 ticket)

Portal Guide — escort guests in, give a friendly tour, introduce them to a few folks — arrive 1:45 PM. ($30 ticket)

Kitchen Elf #1 — check kitchen twice anytime between 3:00–6:30pm; restock, tidy, wash dishes, take out trash/recycling. ($40 ticket)

Kitchen Elf #2 — same as above, anytime between 6:30–10:00pm. ($40 ticket)

Sensory Supervisor — spend approximately 30 minutes maintaining the sensory station to keep materials stocked and as tidy as possible. ($40 ticket)

Use the code COMMUNITY to receive 50% off your ticket if the cost is a barrier and you are unable to provide a service exchange. If cost is still prohibitive, email Autumn at autumnvandiver34@gmail.com so we can provide a NOTAFLOF code.

What to Expect

Covid Safety — Bring a rapid antigen test to take on arrival, or a clear photo of a negative result from that day. Tests available onsite for $10 if needed.

Punctuality — Doors open at 2:00 PM, close at 3:00 PM. No late arrivals unless arranged with the host beforehand.

Parking — Plenty of street parking within 2–3 blocks. Allow extra minutes to find a spot and arrive stress-free.

Accessibility — One ethereal, introvert cat will be upstairs during the event. One all-gender restroom downstairs and one upstairs.

Clothing — Wear whatever makes you feel magical, whimsical, or fully yourself. This is a free the nipple household—tops optional. No shoes in mattressed areas; a shoe drop zone will be provided.

Food & Beverage — Bring a snack, potluck dish, or beverage to share. Finger foods and protein are always a hit.

Personal Hygiene — This is a scent-free event. Please skip perfumes, colognes, incense, and heavily scented lotions.

Tickets — Reserve through Eventbrite here: https://SilentDisco090625.eventbrite.com Your confirmation email will include the exact address and final details.

Opening Circle: Your Guided Adventure Kickoff

Our Connection Agreements — How we co-create a space where everyone’s comfort and boundaries matter.

The House Map & Activity Realms — Get to know each cuddle haven, makeout zone, sensory nook, and the Dreamlit Dance Floor—presented as invitations so you can match your mood to the space.

Boundaries & Guidelines — A brief, practical, friendly toolkit for expressing your own boundaries, respecting others’, and navigating different interactions.

Fun & Connection Warm-Ups — Lighthearted icebreakers or games to meet new friends and melt away awkwardness (participation optional).

Silent Disco Magic 101 — A quick how-to for joining the playlist and making the most of your headphones, so you can float between dancing, conversation, and cozy corners with ease.