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Sincere Socials: The "Come As You Are" Book Night

A night for every body — singles, couples, and everyone in between.

Most of us were never taught how our bodies actually work when it comes to desire, stress, and intimacy. We’re changing that.

Join us for a special edition of Sincere Socials as we dive into one of the most transformative books of our time: "Come As You Are" by Emily Nagoski. This isn't your average, dusty book club. This is a deep dive into the "magic" of being a human with a body.

Wait—do I need to read the book? Nope! Whether you’ve read it three times or never heard of it, you’re welcome. We’ll be nibbling on the most life-changing concepts together—breaking down the science of desire and the art of connection in a way that’s fun, accessible, and a little bit spicy.

What to expect:

  1. The Big Ideas: A guided walkthrough of Emily Nagoski’s best insights (think: the "dual-control model" and why "stress is the enemy of horniness").
  2. Real Talk: Open, honest conversations about intimacy and embodiment in a safe, shame-free space.
  3. The Vibe: Relaxed, bar-side energy. Grab a drink, settle in, and get ready for a few "aha!" moments.
  4. All Are Welcome: For the first time, we’re opening the doors to everyone—singles, couples, and the curious. Bring your partner, your best friend, or just yourself.

The Details:

  1. Tickets: Includes a discount at the bar.
  2. The Goal: To leave feeling more empowered in your skin and more connected to the people around you.

Come for the insights, stay for the connection, and leave with a whole new perspective on how you (and your partners) tick.

Event Details

  1. 🕖 Time: Doors at 7:00pm / Main event runs 7:15–9:30pm (stay after if you’d like!)
  2. 📍 Location: Lulla Lounge @ Motto Hotel, Chelsea NYC
  3. 💸 Cost: $30

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