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Slut Secure: Growing Out of Premature Attachment

Master becoming a Slut Secure! Choose between a 2H intro class or a 6-week intensive with Reid and Misha. 

  • 2H Intro Class - Oct 2nd, 5-7pm PST/8-10pm EST
  • 6W Q&A/Support Call Series - Wednesday nights, 6-8pm PST/9-11pm EST, October 16th thru November 20th

🎟️ Plura+ Members tickets are only available on the Plura app. Download to access yours! 🎟️

CLASS DESCRIPTION

Do you fall in love too fast? Do others get attached to you too quickly? Do you push others away or feel anxious that they'll push you away?

Develop all your sexual friendships with grace, love, respect, and lots of pleasure.

  • Are you finding yourself in over your head trying to balance this world of relationship, sluttiness, sexy possibility, love chemicals, and secure attachment?
  • Want to reap all the benefits of sexual community and mitigate drama (while also getting your needs met in healthy ways)?
  • Feeling overwhelmed by everything you don’t know yet on how to navigate open relationships?
  • Finding a sex-positive community where you’re encouraged to ask for what you want only to have your renaissance of frolicking & exploration explode in your face… It’s not fair! But you’re in luck because it’s possible to become a “secure slut.”

Misha and Reid want you to have all the amazing & yummy things you’re wishing for and more. Have all the sex, have all the friendships, and have all the love with all the ease. Mitigate the hard feelings, the presumptions, the premature attachment woes as you hone and celebrate your sex & intimacy superpowers!

This is about creating secure connections in all your relationships no matter how short or long.

In From Premature Attachment To Slut Secure, you’ll learn how to…

  • Gain clarity in what you want and how to design boundaries that nourish & support you (and those you play with!)
  • Reach a deeper understanding of how New Relationship Energy (NRE), Crushing, and Imprinting look and work for you (and how to explain it clearly to others!)
  • Avoid premature attachment, and when you can’t avoid it… At the very least, lessen it’s bitter hold on your heart!
  • Foster and maintain security in all your connections.
  • Navigate relationship escalation and de-escalation as conscious choices
  • Decipher your knee-jerk reactions when things “get complicated” and brainstorm productive ways to more consciously choose reactions that leave others (and you) feeling seen & respected rather than used and discarded or trapped and deceived.

Check out the FULL 6 Week event HERE: https://Bit.ly/slutsecure

Host Bios

Reid Mihalko of ReidAboutSex.com

As seen on NETFLIX’ “Chelsea Does…” alongside Chelsea Handler, Reid Mihalko of ReidAboutSex.com has been called America’s Favorite Sex Geek, as well as the Tom Hanks of Sex Education. Reid helps adults and college students create more self-esteem, self-confidence, and greater health and accountability in their relationships and sex lives using an inspiring mixture of humor, personal stories, keen insight, and comprehensive sexual health information.

Reid would also like you to know that, in early 2018, some very brave people came forward during #MeToo sharing harms that Reid had caused them. Reid stepped down from teaching and initiated a restorative justice-based accountability process to address his misconduct and make amends if and where possible. The formal, year-long process along with Reid’s apology and resources were shared publicly and can be found at TinyURL.com/reidaccountability

Reid’s workshops and college lectures have been taught all over the world and attended by over 50,000 people. He has appeared in media such as Netflix’ Chelsea Does…, Oprah’s Our America With Lisa Ling on OWN, the Emmy award-winning talk show Montel, Dr. Phil’s The Doctors on CBS, Bravo’s Miss Advised, Fox News, in Newsweek, Seventeen, GQ, The Washington Post, and in thirteen countries and at least seven languages.

Reid is also founder of SexGeekSummerCamp.com, Sex Geek Conservatory, and Sex Geek School for Gifted Sex Geeks, which help sex educators learn valuable business skills that allow them to reach more people with greater ease, transform more lives, and make a better living as sexperts.

Misha Bonaventura of BonoboNetwork.com

Misha co-produces Bonobo Network with William Winters. Alongside William, she is passionate about supporting sex-positive community and helping people create more pleasure for themselves. She teaches and consults individuals and communities to develop their consent culture with a harm reduction and transformative justice lens. Her private practice, Clearing Conversations, focuses on conflict resolution and communication coaching and she loves supporting the sex-positive community of the Bay Area and beyond in creating sustainable, long-term relationship building.

If you want to join our community of sex-positive pleasure seekers, please apply at Bonobo Network!