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SnuggleSpells: Pajama Edition

✨ SnuggleSpells: Pajama Edition ✨

Special guests: MORE is MORE!

​​​​​​​Pitch Your AWESOME Open Ecosystem Person

Friday, June 5th, 2026 | 8:30pm-2am

SnuggleSpells is throwing a pajama party to celebrate the start of PRIDE!!

Join us for a magical night of comfy cuddles, play, and magical connections at SnuggleSpells!

At SnuggleSpells we believe you are an amazing person, and ask you to join us in celebrating that.

Onesies are still very much part of the magic of SnuggleSpells, but since June can be a little warmer, we’re also expanding the vibe to include onsies, pajamas, lounge sets, robes, jumpsuits, rompers, and other comfy sleepwear..

Put on your favorite and come to Mission Control for a night of whimsical fun, sensual cuddles, and so much more through the magic of pajamas and onesies!

Your hosts at SnuggleSpells have a firm belief that the true power of the onesie is how it removes many of the societal trappings of gender. When two people wear the same onesie their gender expressions are very similar, regardless of how wildly different those expressions might be without the onesie. This has the effect of lessening the impact our inherent biases have in the interactions we have, and can help a person explore and expand their own gender identity. We hope to use this power to create an inclusive, gender-neutral space where everyone is free to be their true selves without hesitation.

✨ Schedule ✨

Doors open at 8:30pm

Opening and icebreaker at 9pm

Play starts at 10pmThis party is focused on cuddles and sexual connection rather than BDSM or kink. The Fungeon will be closed for this event. Bottoms must remain on in the Garden, Red Room, and Gazebo. Sexual play is welcome in the Cottage.

To our friends with disabilities, please feel free to contact us prior to the event if you need any accommodations. Your hosts will also be available during the party to help you enjoy the space to the fullest.

Doors close at 11pm

Party ends at 2am

✨ MORE is MORE ✨

Pitch Your AWESOME Open Ecosystem Person

3–5 minute live pitches • community matchmaking • big compersion energy

Pitch someone you adore and let the room fall a little in love with them. In this playful community matchmaking experiment, partners, metas, and collaborators introduce amazing humans in their ecosystem who are open to dates, play partners, cuddle buddies, adventure companions, and more.

Some of the most captivating humans in open ecosystems are already partnered — tonight their people tell you why they’re amazing.

Instead of pitching yourself, pitch someone wonderful in your world — a partner, meta, beloved, or collaborator — and tell the room why they’re such a joy to connect with.

Think of it as community matchmaking powered by compersion.

What People Might Be Looking For

This isn’t just a “dating pitch.”

People may be open to:

• romantic connections

• play partners

• cuddle buddies

• kink collaborators

• activity buddies

• ongoing lovers

• creative partners

• new friendships

• or simply expanding their ecosystem

The goal is aligned connection — whatever form that takes.

How It Works

3–5 minute live pitches from partners or ecosystem collaborators

• Each pitch highlights the person’s vibe, values, and the types of connection they’re open to

• After the pitches, people mingle, flirt, and follow whatever sparks emerge

Because this edition is happening within a play-party environment, there will also be plenty of social space, music, and organic connection time beyond the pitch format.

Audience = Essential

You do not need to be pitched to attend.

The audience is a big part of what makes this work. The more people in the room, the more introductions, resonance, and delightful surprises can happen.

Come listen, cheer people on, and meet fascinating humans.

Who This Is For

• People practicing open, poly, or non-monogamous relating

• All genders and gender identities

• All orientations and places on the sexual / asexual spectrum

Including ACE, ARO, partycules, nested partnerships, kinky explorers, and beyond.

Our Vibe

We prioritize:

• Compersion as a skill of collective liberation

• Ecosystem expansion over exclusivity

• Consent, accountability, relational stewardship

• Celebrating each other OutLoud

Ways to Participate

• Come as audience

Pitch someone you adore

• Meet potential dates, play partners, and collaborators

• Dance, socialize, and enjoy the community

Apply to Pitch Your Person

>>> Submit Your Pitch Here! <<<

If you have any questions about More is More reach out at: moreismoreteam@gmail.com

✨ Dress Code ✨

We ask everyone to attend the party wearing their favorite comfy sleepwear or Onesie. This includes your standard onesies like animals, superheros, etc. but also things like pajamas, lounge sets, jumpers, overalls, robes, and so much more. At a basic level, if it’s a single piece of clothing and you could be considered street legal in it, then it’s a onesie as far as we are concerned.

You are welcome to wear something sexy underneath your comfy sleepwear or onesie, or maybe nothing at all. There is no requirement to keep your comfy sleepwear or onesie on the whole night.

✨ Who Can Attend ✨

We welcome and celebrate guests of all sexual orientations, relationship styles, races, ethnicities, body shapes, roles and experience levels within the human experience! While this is a queer-centered event, we want to make it explicit that our cis-straight allies will be welcomed with open arms here.

This community is overflowing with the best the Bay Area to offer so we don’t anticipate any problems, however if you are not able to celebrate everyone equally for the amazing individual they, are we ask you to stay home.

Want to see who's going, match, chat, and meet the community? Check out SnuggleSpells on Plura: https://plra.io/m/snugglespells-060526

✨ Tickets ✨

You must be a Mission Control member, or guest of a member to attend. Tickets are $0 for Alliance members and $50 for regular members and guests. Alliance members are eligible for ALLY discounts and your free tickets will show up AUTOMAGICALLY in the ticket section. Please select “Ally Discounts” for your free ticket.

No one is turned away for lack of funds. We have a limited number of NOTAFLOF tickets. If you aren't able to volunteer and need a discounted ticket, let us know: https://forms.gle/ZvSRjz53bGMnQKN36

We encourage you to support Mission Control with an annual membership. Alliance members get into SnuggleSpells and other events for free.

✨ Volunteering ✨

All Mission Control parties, including SnuggleSpells, are completely volunteer run. Volunteers get free tickets! We strongly encourage anyone seeking free or discounted tickets to take one of the volunteer shifts. They're generally fun and easy.

To sign up to be a volunteer for SnuggleSpells you need to purchase a free volunteer ticket. If the ticket is available then the role is open. If a volunteer ends up not being able to attend the ticket will become available again, so keep checking back if the role you want isn’t available right away.

>>> VOLUNTEER HERE <<<

✨ PAL System ✨

To ensure safety and comfort for all, guests must have a PAL to attend. This is a trusted person to be your buddy for the night. Learn more about the PAL system: https://events.missioncontrolsf.org/home/PAL

If you do not already have a PAL to attend with, we encourage you to join one of our other Mission Control events that doesn’t require a PAL (e.g., Pink! Drinks, Volunteer Day, Tangle!). Attending any one of these events is a wonderful way to meet other community members who could become trusted friends. Outside of Mission Control events, other classes, mixers and munches are also a good option.

✨ BYOB ✨

This event is BYOB only. Mission Control does not sell nor serve alcohol. Attendees must be 21+. We reserve the right to ask attendees to leave if they are intoxicated enough to not be able to provide true consent.

Accessibility

We regret to inform you that this venue space is not fully wheelchair-friendly. While the first floor is accessible, there are stairs leading to other areas of the venue, which may pose a challenge for individuals with mobility impairments. Additionally, please be aware that the bathrooms are not equipped with wheelchair-accessible facilities. We apologize for any inconvenience this may cause and are committed to making accommodations wherever possible. If you have specific accessibility needs or require further assistance, please do not hesitate to contact us in advance, and we will do our utmost to assist you.

✨MEET YOUR HOSTS ✨

✨ Need Support or Have Feedback? ✨

We seek to create a space that is exceptionally safe and welcoming. Please reach out to a host ASAP if you need support during the event. We also realize that sometimes experiences take time to process. If you need to get in touch with a host after the event, please fill out this form: https://forms.gle/RgJdiDwVgEQjCRNbA

We also welcome feedback of any kind! Please use this form to get in touch with a host after the event to share whatever's on your mind.

We can’t wait to see your amazing self at SnuggleSpells soon! Let’s create some snuggly magic together!

✨ Safety✨

COVID: We encourage folks to have a COVID vaccination. You must bring a negative result from a same-day rapid test. For at-home tests, please name and date the test result card, and take a photo of the card to present at time of entry. Masks are available at the door and we support people who choose to wear them.

Incident Reporting: We seek to create a space that is very safe and welcoming. Please reach out to a host ASAP if there are any consent violations, or anyone makes you feel uncomfortable. You can also fill out the Mission Control Alliance Event Incident Report form: https://forms.gle/qynPQzDBrHwCQX6z7

We can’t wait to see your amazing self at SnuggleSpells soon! Let’s create some snuggly magic together!

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