This month, SpankJam leans into the softer side of impact.
February’s workshop focuses on sensual spanking as a tool for erotic connection, intimacy, and intentional play. We’ll cover negotiation and safety basics, discuss what makes sensual impact different from punishment or heavy play, and explore how mood, pacing, and touch shape the experience before, during, and after a scene.
The demo will include clothed demonstrations of sensual spanking techniques that emphasize communication, arousal, and emotional presence. There will be no sex at this event. This is an educational, lab-style workshop.
Participants will have the opportunity to observe, ask questions, and practice techniques in a low-stakes, supportive environment. SpankJam is not a 101 class, but it is accessible to a wide range of experience levels. Come refine your touch, deepen your impact skills, and explore how spanking can be an act of care, desire, and connection.
Doors open at 6:30 PM and close at 9:30PM.
This event will take place at 1310 Mission Street in San Francisco. It is located in SoMa, near 9th and Mission, and is a 10 minute walk from the Civic Center/UN Plaza BART station.
NyxieNoc (@NyxieNoc on Fetlife) is a multitalented Domme with decades of experience as a sex worker, fetish content producer, and kink, consent & advocacy educator. She loves the connection and container play creates, appreciating the difference in every dynamic and scene.
Driven by the freedom of expression found within kink, Nyxie is passionate about creating safer dynamics, play spaces, and scenes for a more inclusive and supportive community.
Nyxie consults with a variety of organizations, both kinky and vanilla. Through detailed workshops, demonstrations, and one-on-one coaching, Nyxie strives to shape a future wherein exploration and expression are embraced, celebrated, and protected through the continued practices of equity, accountability, education, and harm reduction. Find Nyxie on Instagram, TikTok, and website.
Praxium is a center for kink and sex-positive education, dedicated to building community and expanding knowledge. We honor the rich traditions of the queer leather and kink communities while striving to create a more inclusive, consent-driven culture.
We provide high-quality education - both foundational and advanced - that empowers individuals to explore, play, and connect with confidence and agency. We believe in fostering spaces that support learning, curiosity, and personal growth.
Whether you're new to kink or a seasoned player, Praxium offers opportunities to expand your knowledge, refine your skills, and engage with a thriving community. Reach out to learn more about our classes or how to collaborate with us by emailing us at praxium@afterdark-sf.com