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Spank Jam - Cuddlethumping: Spanking As Care

A monthly Impact workshop presented by Praxium and NyxieNoc - in San Francisco!

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Please note new doors closing time: 8:30PM!

Impact play isn’t just about pain—it can also be about care, connection, and deep comfort. Cuddlethump explores the softer side of impact, focusing on scenes that soothe the nervous system, quiet the mind, and create space for vulnerability and emotional reset.

In this class, we’ll dive into the art of comforting impact play, incorporating techniques for grounding, rhythmic sensation, and embracing closeness through touch. We’ll also discuss pre-care and aftercare, ensuring that scenes leave everyone feeling safe, seen, and supported.

Whether you're looking for stress relief, deep connection, or a way to embrace sensation without maximum intensity, Cuddlethump offers tools to make impact play a source of comfort and care.

Doors open at 6:30 PM. No entry after 8:30PM.

The Venue

This event will take place at Paradox - 1310 Mission Street in San Francisco. It is located in SoMa, near 9th and Mission, and is a 10 minute walk from the Civic Center/UN Plaza BART station.

Accessibility Notes

The entrance to the space is on the ground floor and is fully-accessible, including a social area, play area, and two accessible all-gender bathrooms. The mezzanine level above the bathrooms can only be reached via stairs. There will be music playing throughout the night, and ear plugs may be available at the front desk. For further questions and accessibility requests, please reach out in advance by email to praxium@afterdark-sf.com

Entry

  • Presale tickets are recommended to save money and secure your spot.
  • Ticket sales are final. Refunds are not available.
  • Doors open at 6:30PM. Doors close at 8:30PM and there will be no late entry so please arrive early and plan accordingly.

Inclusivity

  • We warmly invite and encourage individuals of all ages, races, ethnicities, gender identities, sexual orientations, and abilities to attend our event. We are committed to creating an inclusive and welcoming environment where everyone can feel safe, respected, and celebrated. Your unique identity and experiences enrich our community, and we look forward to sharing this special experience with you.
  • Consent and respectful behavior required.

About the Instructor

NyxieNoc (any/all pronouns) is a kink presenter, community organizer, and Program Coordinator at Praxium, with a background as a former sex worker, content producer, and consultant. Known for bringing fresh, expansive, and creative perspectives to kink, Nyx has presented for AfterDark, Let it Reign, New Mexico Leather League, Service Oriented Conference, the Portland Leather Alliance, Boundless Events, Nocturnal Events, Bonobo Network, Sex Positive World, DomCon, Kinky Kollege, and Sex Geek Summer Camp. Their teaching emphasizes the power of consent and agency as foundations for safer, more intentional play, while also inviting participants to embrace playful curiosity, imagination, and edge in their explorations. Fun, dynamic, and deeply invested in equity and inclusion, Nyx creates spaces where people can grow, connect, and discover new ways to experience kink with authenticity and joy.

About Praxium

Praxium is a center for kink and sex-positive education, dedicated to building community and expanding knowledge. We honor the rich traditions of the queer leather and kink communities while striving to create a more inclusive, consent-driven culture.

We provide high-quality education - both foundational and advanced - that empowers individuals to explore, play, and connect with confidence and agency. We believe in fostering spaces that support learning, curiosity, and personal growth.

Whether you're new to kink or a seasoned player, Praxium offers opportunities to expand your knowledge, refine your skills, and engage with a thriving community. Reach out to learn more about our classes or how to collaborate with us by emailing us at praxium@afterdark-sf.com

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