Spank Jam - Good Top/Bad Top (A Monthly Impact Workshop)

An AfterDark Impact Workshop Presented by NyxieNoc

This month’s SpankJam explores multi-Top impact scenes through the lens of Good Top/Bad Top, a playful structure where one Top soothes, supports, or seduces while the other brings the sting, sass, or sadism. We’ll dig into how to build these kinds of scenes, how to keep them intense or hilarious, and how to share control without stepping on toes or compromising safety.

We’ll cover RACK practices, gear bag essentials, safety tools, negotiation basics, and aftercare. Our interview with the demo bottom and co-Top will unpack what makes multi-Top scenes work and where they can go wrong.

We’ll finish with a live demonstration showing how it all fits together.

Whether you're the good cop, the bad cop, or somewhere in between, this class will give you tools to co-top with confidence.

Doors open at 6:30 PM and close at 9:30PM.

Where:

The exact venue address will be sent to ticket holders only for privacy and safety reasons, but it is in SoMa. For planning purposes it is a 10 minute walk from the UN Plaza/Civic Center BART station.

Stopgap is San Francisco’s premier venue for impact play - steeped in history and beloved by the kink community. The fully accessible first floor offers social and play spaces. Below, the 3,100-square-foot basement is filled with iconic equipment, including crosses, benches, bondage chairs, and cages. Many pieces were recovered from the Citadel’s lost storage unit and hold a special place in the hearts of longtime community members. With its historic charm and ample space, Stopgap is the perfect impactful environment for creating memorable experiences.

Tickets:

1. Tickets are $25 in advance or $35 at the door (limited financial access tickets available) - includes all taxes and fees
2. No Refunds. All sales are Final.
3. Ticket transfers may be accommodated on a case-by-case basis & may incur a $5 transfer fee per ticket. Please email us at praxium@afterdark-sf.com to transfer your ticket.

About the Instructor

NyxieNoc is a multitalented Domme with decades of experience as a sex worker, fetish content producer, and kink, consent & advocacy educator. She loves the connection and container play creates, appreciating the difference in every dynamic and scene.

Driven by the freedom of expression found within kink, Nyxie is passionate about creating safer dynamics, play spaces, and scenes for a more inclusive and supportive community.

Nyxie consults with a variety of organizations, both kinky and vanilla. Through detailed workshops, demonstrations, and one-on-one coaching, Nyxie strives to shape a future wherein exploration and expression are embraced, celebrated, and protected through the continued practices of equity, accountability, education, and harm reduction.

About Praxium

Praxium is a center for kink and sex-positive education, dedicated to building community and expanding knowledge. We honor the rich traditions of the queer leather and kink communities while striving to create a more inclusive, consent-driven culture.

We provide high-quality education - both foundational and advanced - that empowers individuals to explore, play, and connect with confidence and agency. We believe in fostering spaces that support learning, curiosity, and personal growth.

Whether you're new to kink or a seasoned player, Praxium offers opportunities to expand your knowledge, refine your skills, and engage with a thriving community. Reach out to learn more about our classes or how to collaborate with us by emailing us at praxium@afterdark-sf.com