Spank Jam - Back to Basics: Safer Impact Play (A Monthly Impact Workshop)

An AfterDark Impact Workshop Presented by NyxieNoc

September’s Spank Jam brings us back to the essentials of safe and satisfying impact play. Whether you are brand new or looking to refresh your foundation, this session focuses on body mapping and choosing the right implements to fit your scene.

We will explore where it is safer to strike, areas to avoid, and how different parts of the body respond to varying levels of sensation. You will also learn how to select and use implements with intention, balancing safety with the type of experience you want to create. From hands to paddles, each tool has its own character, and we will break down how to match them to your goals.

This workshop is designed to build confidence, expand your awareness, and support safer play for both tops and bottoms. Join us for a practical, hands-on approach to the fundamentals that every impact player should know.

Doors open at 6:30 PM and close at 9:30PM.

Where:

The exact venue address will be sent to ticket holders only for privacy and safety reasons, but it is in SoMa. For planning purposes it is a 10 minute walk from the UN Plaza/Civic Center BART station.

Stopgap is San Francisco’s premier venue for impact play - steeped in history and beloved by the kink community. The fully accessible first floor offers social and play spaces. Below, the 3,100-square-foot basement is filled with iconic equipment, including crosses, benches, bondage chairs, and cages. Many pieces were recovered from the Citadel’s lost storage unit and hold a special place in the hearts of longtime community members. With its historic charm and ample space, Stopgap is the perfect impactful environment for creating memorable experiences.

Tickets:

1. Tickets are $25 in advance or $35 at the door (limited financial access tickets available) - includes all taxes and fees
2. No Refunds. All sales are Final.
3. Ticket transfers may be accommodated on a case-by-case basis & may incur a $5 transfer fee per ticket. Please email us at praxium@afterdark-sf.com to transfer your ticket.

About the Instructor

NyxieNoc is a multitalented Domme with decades of experience as a sex worker, fetish content producer, and kink, consent & advocacy educator. She loves the connection and container play creates, appreciating the difference in every dynamic and scene.

Driven by the freedom of expression found within kink, Nyxie is passionate about creating safer dynamics, play spaces, and scenes for a more inclusive and supportive community.

Nyxie consults with a variety of organizations, both kinky and vanilla. Through detailed workshops, demonstrations, and one-on-one coaching, Nyxie strives to shape a future wherein exploration and expression are embraced, celebrated, and protected through the continued practices of equity, accountability, education, and harm reduction.

About Praxium

Praxium is a center for kink and sex-positive education, dedicated to building community and expanding knowledge. We honor the rich traditions of the queer leather and kink communities while striving to create a more inclusive, consent-driven culture.

We provide high-quality education - both foundational and advanced - that empowers individuals to explore, play, and connect with confidence and agency. We believe in fostering spaces that support learning, curiosity, and personal growth.

Whether you're new to kink or a seasoned player, Praxium offers opportunities to expand your knowledge, refine your skills, and engage with a thriving community. Reach out to learn more about our classes or how to collaborate with us by emailing us at praxium@afterdark-sf.com