Spiritual Power of Conscious Kink

*The venue is 30 minutes from downtown Nevada City. If you’re familiar with the area, it’s on the ridge.

“The Spiritual Power of Conscious Kink”

A daylong immersion into the vitality of power dynamics, voice activation, pleasure, and conscious, embodied, erotic play — curated for spiritually attuned seekers, edge-walkers, and those navigating the overwhelm of being alive right now.

This is a ceremonial playspace where devotional kink meets spiritual practice — where the sacred and the profane entwine to move stuck energy, reclaim choice, and remind us of our inherent power.

If you are devoted to your personal growth, called toward the transformative potential of eros, and feeling the weight of the world (or your own inner weather) press heavy on your system — this space was made for you.

This round, we’re introducing a new thread:

A Kinky Ritual for Collective Overwhelm.

Because these are overwhelming times. And we believe that conscious kink — rooted in trust, ritual, sensation, and power — can be an antidote. A balm. A breakthrough. A way back into your body, your breath, your belonging.

In the facilitated portion of the day, we’ll offer experiential frameworks, practice, and play in:

1. Establishing and exploring power dynamics with intention, consent, and reverence

1. Learning kink tools and techniques — with plenty of delicious toys on hand!

1. Refining your communication around desires, boundaries, limits, and feedback

1. Engaging kink as shadow integration, nervous system play, and embodied spiritual practice

1. Activating your voice — as a weapon, a prayer, a spell, and a birthright

1. Remembering that eros is a life force, not just a sex act — and that it belongs to you

We’ll weave individual exploration with communal ritual. We’ll play with the art of surrender and the sacredness of structure. We’ll learn to wield pleasure and pain, sensation and stillness, as tools for aliveness and awakening.

This is advanced kink for beginners — meaning you don’t need any prior experience, just a readiness to be real, curious, and present. We’ll start at the root, meet you where you are, and build toward a container of collective ritual and optional open play.

We teach from the belief that kink done well is a pathway to greater embodiment, liberation, and radical acceptance — a reclamation of agency in a world that often strips us of it.

If you’ve been feeling overwhelmed — by the world, by grief, by joy you don’t know how to hold — come lay it down with us. Come let it move. Come remember how to transmute it through breath, through body, through the sacred playground of conscious kink.

We can’t wait to meet you there.

WHAT IT IS

1. A gender inclusive, queer enthused event
2. A ceremonial container that ends in a co-created communal ritual
3. A highly curated and intimate container.
4. We’re here to set up this skillset and container for you, trusting that you can hold yourself inside of it. Go at the pace of your own consent and capacity for integration. Titrate yourself as necessary
5. Healing may be a byproduct, but not an expectation.
6. It is always a good idea when engaging in a ceremony to have a support network set up for you to lean into after the event should things come up. This is an experience, not a healing journey.
7. The focus is play, pleasure, empowerment, creativity, connection, and opening the aperture for how it’s possible to be with all the materials of your own embodied experience.

WHAT IT AIN’T

1. An opportunity to numb out
2. A place to expect a peak experience, especially if you’re not available to do the necessary integration work to truly embody what you experience
3. A full out sex party. We will be playing with erotic energy and relational kink. All nipples are welcome, bottoms stay on. Personal expression and exchange of erotic energy is available and encouraged. Clothes off genital contact, intercourse, oral sex, and bottoms off anal play are not. We may hold a future event with a different set of boundaries.
4. A place to try to find a date. We love and encourage connection, and while new connections may be made, arrive to this event with the intention to learn, play, to stay connected to yourself and your experience. and to bring presence and nonattachment to opportunities for moments of intimacy.

GROUP AGREEMENTS

1. Arrive on time
2. Establish consent before physically touching others, or engaging in power dynamics/kink activities
3. Own your own experience and take care of yourself
4. Confidentiality - do not share about your experience in a way that exposes the identities of other participants.
5. No photographs or videos, outside of a private, designated area for photography - no sharing or posting photos on social media without explicit consent
6. No naked genital contact, sexual intercourse, oral sex or bottoms off anal play
7. Don’t yuck anyone else’s yum - no kink shaming

FLOW OF EVENT

Arrival at 10:00

Locked door at 10:30

No refunds if you do not arrive on time

10:30 am PROMPT start

10:30 - 1:00 opening circle and first round of facilitated activities

1:00 - 2:00 lunch (lunch is not provided - please bring a lunch)

2:00 - 4:30 second round of facilitated activities/ritual time

5:00 - Participants exit

*This event requires an application. Once approved you will be emailed where to purchase tickets. Tiered ticket prices at $150-$250

Meet your facilitators:

Kj Song (they/them) Candidate: Masters in Divinity, Founder of PRAYEROTIC. Blending erotic artistry, expertise, and a deep commitment to radical acceptance and inclusion, KJ’s kink is out-of-the-box ministry and vice versa. With an extensive background rooted in both BDSM and holistic practices, KJ has crafted a unique approach to kink that goes far beyond what you may see in the movies. As a seasoned provider and ceremonialist, KJ specializes in crafting soulful experiences for those intrigued by surrender beyond the dungeon. When they’re not in the temple you can find KJ leading queer choirs, going to bed at a geriatric hour and eating an unhealthy amount of bacon.

Ashley Berry (she/her) She is a professional dominatrix, embodied relationship coach, conscious kink educator, facilitator and DJ. She is also the co-founder of Wholistic Kink LLC. She blends her background in psychology, conscious communication practices, consent, body work, and somatics, with a play-based approach to relationships, shadow work, and personal growth, to create containers that support radical acceptance, erotic wholeness, and access to joy. She's passionate about building a consent-based, creatively expressed community, and am so grateful to contribute to this vision by doing what she loves most: nurturing relational harmony; sharing music, dance, and performance; and exploring erotic embodiment as a liberating practice.

Kyle Lovett (she/they) They are a queer energy/body worker, ceremonialist and professional switch. Recovery, authentic creative expression and kink have been the three pillars to Kyle's own personal healing and it's her honor to educate, share stories and empower people through these topics. She has been a proud and active non-monogamous kinkster for a decade and is deeply passionate about supporting people navigating those realms. They are the co-founder of Wholistic Kink LLC where they produce events, run workshops, demo scenes at retreats and offer 1:1 kinky Holistic immersions. She personally works with individuals and couples to support their evolution into kink and/or CNM dynamics through virtual or in person sessions.