Plura

still stuck on someone?

this is for you if there is someone you can't quite stop thinking about

even when you try

even when you know it doesn’t make sense

and even when a part of you is like… why am i so obsessed with this person?

consider coming: if you want to understand romantic obsession, limerence, and mind looping — and why it all feels so intense

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in this live session we’ll explore:

what “stuck” actually feels like

• the looping thoughts you can’t shut off

• the pull to check, reach out, or go back

• why it feels so intense (and why your brain makes it mean something)

why this happens (even when you know better):

• fantasy bonds (what you felt, not what actually was)

• ambiguity (the “maybe” that keeps you hooked)

• sexual chemistry + bio bonding (your body got involved)

how to use this instead of just suffering through it:

• where your attention is going — and what it’s trying to show you about your own need for connection

• what this reveals about your unmet needs — and how to get clear on what you actually want

• how this experience is shaping who you’re becoming — not just something to get over

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we’ll walk through all of this together in a 45 min live zoom session

and you’ll also get a copy of my book:

Obsession Is Not Love - Understanding Limerence, Romantic Obsession and Why You Can't Stop Thinking About Someone

(so you can keep going after the session)

what you will leave with:

  • new mind map for what's happening to you
  • a little more space in your mind (finally)
  • a way forward that actually feels possible
  • a book you can explore at your own pace

if this is hitting something for you…

you should come

i am kristen mcLeod

i'm a sf bay area sex & relationship coach & author

i specialize in clarity for confusing relationship dynamics

i really get into:

  • helping couples feel & soften their protective patterns
  • helping individuals untangle fantasy bonds & limerence
  • mapping out relationship vortexes (and tools to not feed it)

i hope you can come!