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Stockton Social Mingle: Polyamory/CNM

**What to Expect:**

  1. Set in a Private Room (with a see through glass wall).
  2. No structure to the event. Just come, hang out, chat, or just sit back and observe. Feeling shy or need to fill the empty silence? I'll have Ice Breaker questions on the table.
  3. No purchase necessary or admittance fee! Feeling generous? Buy everyone a pizza (sharing is caring!)
  4. ALL are welcome : no discrimination, hate, or judgement permitted. We all do Non-Monogamy different, we all present ourselves differently, and that's ok! It's all beautiful!
  5. New? We all are! This community was jump started in October 2025 (though founded in 2016).
  6. New to Consensual Non-Monogamy? This is a great place to ask questions, learn, grow, and connect!

**When does it start:**

  1. We have the room reserved for 5:30 - 8:30. That includes set up and clean up.
  2. Come and go any time! Again, there is no structure!

**Who is this:**

  1. This group is called "SJC Polyamory/CNM" listed on all the above hosted sites.
  2. We are a community of all ages, sizes, colors, abilities, professions, genders, sexualities and forms of Consensual Non-Monogamy.
  3. CNM includes, but is not limited to: Polyamory, Swinging, Relationship Anarchy, Closed & Open Triads/Quads/and more, Poly-Mono relationships and those who don't believe in labels but want relationships/partnerships/situationships with more than one individual simultaneously.

**How much is this:**

  1. Always free! No entry fee, no purchase necessary, no hat passed.
  2. If you have the means, there are a variety of food options from appetizers, a salad bar, pizzas, and beverages.
  3. Hosting, advertising, planning, executing, engaging the community, and all of this takes time and oftentimes resources on my end though. If you can help me keep doing what I do check out my annual costs gofundme here: : https://gofund.me/fba286dc (or contact me to make arrangements! Or just show up and drop something in my donation box or to my venmo)
  4. Host DMs are OPEN! (please do not DM other attendees without consent) or you can e-mail me at StocktonPoly@gmail.com

**In Search Of:**

  1. Any and all suggestions for other event locations/venues and ideas!
  2. Hosts! Want to throw a movie night or whatever at your place? Let's freaking do it! I'll do all the organizing/advertising, so contact me and let's make it happen!

Feeling generous? Buy the group a pizza! https://www.eventbrite.com/e/stockton-sociaal-mingle-polyamorycnm-tickets-1778646332059?aff=oddtdtcreator (or just show up and do so, or contact me!)

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