Stomping and Bootsex

Let’s get into it. The hot. The sexy. The power. The craving. As if we need another

reason to lace up, buckle, or slide into a pair of boots. We’ll start with stomping as a bit

of foreplay, culminating in the seductive rush of BootSex.

Stomping:

“One of these days these boots are gonna walk all over you.” Or so the song goes.

Have you ever fantasized about doing that to someone…or having it done to you? What

is it about the weight of a heavy boot pressing down that takes your breath away? We’ll

explore some of the exciting ways of stomping for pleasure and inducing pain.

Headspace, safety, and general fuckery will be discussed.

BootSex:

If you love all things boots (femme, butch, or somewhere in between), BootSex may be

right up your alley. It goes beyond boot worshiping or boot blacking. BootSex is an

erotic and intimate dance that can be different with each partner. It can be an exchange

of energy or an engagement of complete dominance and submission. Let your

imagination and your desire run wild.

Educator Bio

Someone once told me, “It’s the quiet ones you have to watch out for.” I looked at them

and didn’t say a word.

Playing on the edge and pushing boundaries is what feeds me in organic and in

extraordinary ways. What some call edge play, I consider just another ordinary night in

the dungeon. I am fortunate to have learned from a vast number of skilled, talented, and

wicked leather women and men. They not only taught me the importance of technical

skills, but also the emotional and mental aptitude required to fully delve into the dark

and brilliant places we touch as SM practitioners. It’s been my privilege and joy to pass

on what I’ve learned, both through mentoring others and classes/workshops locally and

nationally.

Leather is core to who I am. It’s more than the activity; it is the path I walk in life. I dove

headfirst into this community back in 1997, and it has been home ever since. I love

spending time with pervy, kinky folx playing and building community.

In earlier days, I was on the board of Leatherfest, produced by ClubX, as the Assistant

Security Coordinator. After that, I had the distinct honor of serving as Ms. San Diego

Leather 1998-1999, focusing on outreach to new members of our local Leather/Kink

community. Simultaneously, I served as the Regional Coordinator for the Leather

Archive and Museum. In 2000, I represented San Diego in Toronto, placing 1st runnerup in the International Ms. Bootblack contest. Since then, I’ve worked behind the scenes

of more fundraisers and events than I can count. Most recently, I got into some

wickedness helping produce the Southwest Regional Women of Drummer weekend in

2025.

I’m looking forward to instigating more sexy fun in 2026. See you on the dark side.