Strap-On Edge Play with Rain DeGrey!

From playful desire to brutal extremes, when the fantasy turns feral.

When: Sat, Mar 14, 2026 11:00 AM - 1:00 PM PDT

Where: Online, Zoom

Ticket Link: https://forbiddentickets.com/events/black-thorn/fbc10ce519

Fetlife RSVP: https://fetlife.com/events/2026/03/14/strap-on-edge-play-with-rain-degrey-a-recorded-zoom-class-u9jeia

Strap-on as edge play? Absolutely—if you know what you’re doing. Strap-ons can take someone apart until they’re a whimpering puddle, glassy-eyed and stumbling, unable to remember their own name.

Please Note: This class will be recording and the recording will be available to ticket holders.

In this workshop, Rain DeGrey will show you how strap-ons can go far beyond “fun and sexy” into the realm of brutal edge play—all while keeping safety, consent, and communication at the center.

Expect a raw, candid, and practical look into the psychology, risks, and techniques behind pushing strap-on play to its limits.

Topics include the following:

• Choosing the right harnesses & toys

• Negotiation, risk assessment & clear communication

• Cleaning tips & biohazard considerations

• Vomit/gagging play

• Breath play & cervix punching

• Extreme anal & internal bruising

• What to do when a scene goes off the rails

• Aftercare & check-ins

• Live Q&A

…and much more!

If you’ve ever thought, “This is nice, but how do I take it up to 11—and where’s the puke?” then this is the class for you. Come prepared to rethink what’s possible with a strap-on.

This is a pansexual class open to all genders and orientations. Everyone is welcome—the only requirement is an open mind.

About Rain DeGrey

Rain DeGrey is an international educator, writer, presenter, podcaster and performer that has been writing articles and teaching classes focusing on kink, relationships, and sex education since 2009. After getting her start as a fetish model, Pro Domme, and competitive wrestler, she was motivated to branch out into education, something she is extremely passionate about. Demystifying sexuality and presenting in a clear humorous way are trademarks of her teaching style. She believes strongly in making sex education fun and engaging.

She has taught on a wide variety of topics at numerous venues including Harvard University, Northwestern University, Kink.com, The Citadel, Dark Odyssey, Folsom Street Fair, KinkAcadamy, Thunder in the Mountains, and Boundcon in Germany.

Her work has been featured in such places as Playboy TV’s “69 sexiest things to do before you die”, Seattle Erotic Arts Festival, The SF Fetish Ball, Exotic Erotic, Rope::Burn, Kink-e-zine and Femina Potens. In 2017 she was named the dirtiest mouth in San Francisco upon winning the Dirty Talk Game Show at Dark Odyssey.

Rain DeGrey spends her time teaching classes, writing articles, her online advice column, producing podcasts, and providing one on one coaching to select clients.

For information on the classes she teaches click HERE, or https://www.raindegrey.com/contact for information about any of her services.