Surrender: Wrestling & Feminization

NYC's Favorite Kinky Wrestling Play Party

Friday, August 15

6 p.m. – 11 p.m.

Near Union Square, NYC (address in confirmation email)

Your favorite kinky, queer wrestling party is back—this time with a fresh twist: FEMINIZATION. 💄✨

You're oh-so-pretty! And if you aren’t yet... you will be (if you consent). Whether you’re eager to play with gender expression or just curious what all the fuss is about, this night is for you.

👠 New to feminization or gender play? Don’t miss the included pre-party workshop by the incomparable The Commandant, who’ll guide you through theory, exploration and transformation.

💥 WHAT TO EXPECT:

Surrender isn’t just one thing—it’s a house party, a kink-positive lab and a body-positive mat-fueled fantasy.

💪 Open mat wrestling all night long (bring a friend, find an opponent!)

🧠 Consent + safety briefings + intro lessons (perfect for first-timers)

🔥 Workshop: Gender Play/Feminization with The Commandant

🎁 Vendors: Elevated treats, flash tattoo, SW Survival Guide, Fantasy Features

🧸 Cuddle puddle room (designated smoke & chill zone)

🎲 Surprises and spontaneous fun all night

🛡️ Referees present to keep play consensual & safe

All types of fetish wrestling are welcome:

Struggle play, primal grappling, BJJ, Judo, pins, rope wrestling, tickle fights, submission, fantasy, Zentai... The style is yours to choose. The vibe is RACK: Risk-Aware Consensual Kink.

🌟 FIRST TIME WRESTLING?

You’re in the right place. The party begins with safety demos and consent primers, and our team of referees will be available all night to monitor the mats. Play is at your own risk, but our top priority is ensuring you have what you need to explore with confidence.

❤️ SAFETY, CONSENT & COMMUNITY

We have a zero tolerance policy for harassment or boundary violations. Consent is always mandatory. If anything feels off, speak to Katarina, GlittersaurusRex, or one of our LED-armband consent monitors.

This is a welcoming space for all identities. Discrimination of any kind—including racism, transphobia, fatphobia, kink shaming, or ableism—will not be tolerated.

🚫 Unfortunately, the venue is not wheelchair accessible.

🌡️ No-touch temperature checks will be taken at the door.

🎟️ TICKETS & ACCESS

Online sales close: August 15 at 12 a.m. ET

Door tickets: $80 (register online to get the address + info)

No refunds

🎟️ QTPOC and SWs can request a pay-what-you-can code from Katarina.

🎁 Want to help make the party more accessible? Add a donation to support community ticketing.

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💬 Got questions? Check the FAQ!

🛑 Reminder:

Surrender Parties are intended for educational and entertainment purposes. All activities are consensual, respectful and professionally guided. Attendees participate at their own risk and agree to take personal responsibility for their well-being.