Surrender is NYC’s ultimate wrestling and kink play party! Step onto the mats or just watch in a safe, fun, body-positive space.
Step onto the mats. Feel the impact.
Surrender is NYC’s favorite kinky, queer wrestling play party with house-party vibes. Roll with friends, meet new allies or explore at your own pace. Newbies and wrestling-curious welcome. There’s plenty to entertain you even if you don’t want to wrestle: explore vendors, chill in the cuddle puddle room, eat a snack and chat or just watch the action unfold.
Friday, March 27, 2026
6:00 p.m. – 11:30 p.m.
NYC near Union Square (address sent with registration)
💥 Open Mat Wrestling
Pins, pro-style, struggle play, primal, grappling, submission, BJJ, rope wrestling, tickle fights, fantasy—you get to choose.
🛡️ Consent & Safety
Referees keep the mats safer and LED-armband consent monitors are easy to spot if you need help. Our color wristband system shows who’s open to play and who prefers not to be approached. Photos and videos are only allowed in the designated corner—no phones in the rest of the party.
TICKETS
* As each level of tickets sells out, prices go up as we get closer to the party!
* All tickets, except workshop-only tickets, include both the workshop and the party.
* All online sales end March 27 at 12 midnight.
* Door tickets: $80 (register online for address + info).
* Workshop-only tickets available. No virtual option.
* No refunds. No discounts at the door.
Pay-what-you-can for SW, QTPOC and financial hardship. Email theDommeKat@protonmail.com for the code. (Limited number available.)
COMMUNITY
We will be practicing RACK: Risk Aware Consensual K|nk. BDSM can affect us in mental, emotional and physical ways. Please check-in with yourself. As with any physical activity, there is risk of injury. Please decide if this activity is in your risk profile before participating. Wrestle at your own risk.
Katarina reserves the right to remove anyone whose actions misalign with our values or breach community guidelines.
These events are intended for educational and entertainment purposes and attendees participate at their own risk. Some events may involve physical or emotional exploration and by attending, you agree to take personal responsibility for your well-being. By attending, you agree to participate at your own risk, conduct your own risk management and agree to hold the event facilitators and facility harmless for any type of harm that may occur. The Domme Kat upholds this platforms community guidelines and all activities within her events are consensual, respectful and professionally guided. This event is not s3x-based, hookup style, explicit or p0rnographic.