Surrender: Wrestling and Pet Play (A K!nky Wrestling Party)

Unleash your inner beast at NYC’s k!nkiest Friday night: pet play meets wrestling mats.

Friday, October 17

6 p.m. – 11 p.m.

Near Union Square, NYC (address in confirmation email)

Your favorite k!nky, queer wrestling party is back—this time with a tail-wagging twist: PET PLAY 🐾

Whether you’re a playful pup, a curious kitten, a mischievous bunny or just love the energy of the animal kingdom, tonight’s your chance to romp, wrestle and explore your inner creature. Dress-up encouraged—collars, ears, tails, harnesses, paw gloves, muzzles, masks… the more animalistic, the better.

🐕 New to pet play? Don’t miss the included pre-party workshop, where the instructor will guide you through the roles, dynamics and body language of pets and handlers. Learn how to embody your animal self, negotiate play and find your stride (or slink, or scamper) in the k!nk menagerie.

✨ Already in your beast mode? Strut your tail, practice your best purr or challenge a fellow creature on the mats.

💥 WHAT TO EXPECT:

Surrender isn’t just one thing—it’s a house party, a k!nk-positive lab and a body-positive mat-fueled fantasy.

💪 Open mat wrestling all night long — take down your prey, tussle with the pack, or let your handler show you off in style

🧠 Consent + safety briefings + intro lessons (perfect for first-timers, whether you’re new to wrestling, pet play or both)

🔥 Workshop: Pet Play 101 by Divine Tempest

🎁 Vendors: treats, tattoos and more!

🧸 Cuddle puddle room (designated smoke & chill zone) — perfect for curling up with fellow pets after a good romp

🛡️ Referees present to keep play consensual & safe

All types of wrestling welcome: primal, BJJ, pins, rope wrestling, tickle fights, submission, fantasy, Zentai… The style is yours to choose. The vibe is RACK: Risk-Aware Consensual Kink.

🌟 FIRST TIME WRESTLING?

You’re in the right place. The party begins with safety demos and consent primers, and our team of referees will be available all night to monitor the mats. Play is at your own risk, but our top priority is ensuring you have what you need to explore with confidence.

❤️ SAFETY, CONSENT & COMMUNITY

We have a zero tolerance policy for harassment or boundary violations. Consent is always mandatory. If anything feels off, speak to Katarina, GlittersaurusRex or one of our LED-armband consent monitors.

This is a welcoming space for all identities. Discrimination of any kind—including racism, transphobia, fatphobia, kink shaming or ableism—will not be tolerated.

🚫 Unfortunately, the venue is not wheelchair accessible.

🌡️ No-touch temperature checks will be taken at the door or Covid tests will be provided at no cost to you. An announcement will be made on Fetlife @SurrenderParties.

🎟️ TICKETS & ACCESS

Online sales close: October 17 at 12 a.m. ET

Register online to get the address + info if you plan to pay at the door.

No refunds

🎟️ Queer and transgender people of color and SWs can request a pay-what-you-can code from Katarina. *Limited number available.*

🎁 Want to help make the party more accessible? Add a donation to support community ticketing.

🛑 Reminder:

Surrender Parties are intended for educational and entertainment purposes. All activities are consensual, respectful and professionally guided. Attendees participate at their own risk and agree to take personal responsibility for their well-being.