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Tantra Speed Date® - San Diego Ages 40+ (Meet Singles Speed Dating)

Join the speed dating revolution with a 94% match rate! Meet singles & ignite connections through fun, chemistry-building games! *Ages 40+

*More press reviews, success stories and testimonials further down 👇

👆CLICK PLAY to see sparks flying & souls aligning at TSD! (45 seconds)👆

Dive Into The Magic of Conscious Connection With Up To 20 Guided Speed Dates!

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^^^ Hear that?

That's the sound of a long and very uncomfortable silence.

And if you've ever run out of things to talk about on a first date, then it's a sound you know all too well.

Which is why, here at Tantra Speed Date®, we do speed dating a little differently.

You see, our trained facilitators use cutting-edge relational techniques to bring you and your dates into a mindful state of presence.

When you're in this state, any feelings of nervousness or self-consciousness will melt away. So you can simply relax, have fun, and put your best foot forward...

While our interactive guided exercises light that 'spark' for you – no awkward small talk needed!

Connecting on a deeply meaningful level couldn't be any easier...

And we've got the stats to prove it! (We're not just romantics, we're data geeks too)

By now, over 20,000+ singles have participated in Tantra Speed Date® in 50+ cities worldwide... And exactly 94.09% of them have matched with one or more dates!

In other words, you'll no longer have to rely on getting "lucky in love"...

Because this time the odds are in your favor ;)

So grab your ticket and get ready for a fun night of speed dating, matchmaking, and authentic relating!

* Events do sell out, so get your tickets online to guarantee your spot*

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💃🕺 * Age Range:

We've designed this event with singles ages 40 and up in mind, but hey, it's more of a suggestion than a strict rule. If you're keen on meeting awesome singles in this age range, come join the fun – everyone's welcome!

Our "Double Or Nothing" Connection Promise

With our 94.09% connection rate, making a match is almost a sure thing!

In fact, we're so confident you'll make at least one connection that if the sparks don't fly for you, then your next ticket is on us!

💝 Just read some of the wonderful testimonials below to learn what could happen for you!

Meet Your Facilitator: JJ Brawley

JJ is a Certified Tantra Speed Date® Facilitator

Shiva J is a Somatic Bodyworker, Tantra Teacher, Kundalini Yoga Instructor, Certified Life Coach, Licensed Clinical Hypnotherapist, and Master NLP Practitioner with over 20 years of experience in the fitness world. After facing a severe back injury, divorce, bankruptcy, and homelessness, he studied holistic wellness and Tantra to heal his mind, body, and spirit. He now helps clients transform their lives using his unique perspective of the mind, body, spirit connection, and offers private sessions, workshops, and retreats.

Contact: jj.brawley@tantrany.com

https://www.tantrany.com/speed-dating/san-diego/

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*Don't get left out, purchase tickets in advance to guarantee your spot. We have little-to-no door tickets due to venue capacities and gender balance. Beware of fake sellers; tickets are non-transferable.

*Please note this is a sober soirée! We want you fully present to enjoy the sparks flying during your fabulous dates! If you show up tipsy, we might have to say 'see you next time.'

TESTIMONIALS & SUCCESS STORIES

Here are some heartwarming stories from people who had their initial doubts but decided to take a chance on Tantra Speed Date®!

"We couldn't have imagined how our lives would be impacted by attending Tantra Speed Date®. Our connection was soft and sweet, what we both describe as the 'best first date of our lives.' Meeting in such a vulnerable and safe environment was the perfect catalyst for creating an authentic connection. Having that as the base for our first meetings laid the foundation for honesty and trust."

— Jihan & Joseph

👇TSD originator Guy Shahar demonstrates some of the connection games!👇

👆TSD originator Guy Shahar demonstrates some of the connection games!👆

More Than Just A Speed Dating Event

At Tantra Speed Date®, our mission goes beyond just helping you find your next match.

We're committed to helping you bring more connection into your love life wherever you go!

That's why our guided exercises have a "secret" purpose; they enhance your relationship skills in subtle, yet powerful ways...

So you'll walk away not only with matches but also with a new level of confidence in yourself as both a person and a partner!

Plus, you'll learn how to bring more presence into all your interactions going forward...

Which will allow you to start engaging with your future dates in a way that's fun, authentic, and even healing.

So if you were wondering why singles have dubbed this event as "Yoga for your Love Life"...

Well, now you know!

FAQ

Don't see your question answered below? Check out the FAQ on our website (bottom of page)!

What is Tantra, and why "Tantra" Speed Date?

Forget those wild myths and blockbuster misunderstandings; Tantra is more about connection, fun, and being present than anything risqué. Imagine it as the art of "relationship yoga," blending age-old practices with a twist of joy and mindfulness. Through exercises like breathing, meditating, and maybe even a little dancing, you'll find yourself more in tune with those around you. It's like a social superpower for making genuine connections, and trust us, it's a blast! After all, we find this level of presence is exactly what's missing from most dating encounters today. Why just talk when you can laugh, connect, and explore together?

What does this style of dating look like?

Picture this: You'll form two fun-filled circles of fellow daters. The men make up the outer ring, and the women form the inner ring; so that you're paired off with a friendly face across from you. Together, you'll dive into engaging and heartfelt mini-dates (we call them 'dating stations') that last just long enough to spark a connection. After each experience, you'll bring your hands into a cheerful 'Namaste', share a quick thank you, and then — whoosh! — off to the next exciting meeting. Keep circling around, and by the end, you'll have met everyone.

What kinds of exercises will I do?

No clichéd icebreakers here! Our exercises are all about authentic human connection, not cheesy romance. We're talking engaging dialogue, light partner yoga, movement/dance, heartwarming eye-gazing, and even some gentle hand-holding. It's a delightful mix that goes beyond the mundane 'what's your job' chatter.

The coolest part? Every exercise is wrapped around a positive relating skill. So, not only will you have a blast, you'll be building real relationship skills too! And remember consent, you're the boss of how you participate. It's all about fun and connection in a way that feels good for you.

What if one of the exercises is not my cup of tea?

Thanks for asking! While the exercises are straightforward and fun, you are always 100% at choice for how you wish to participate. If you find an exercise that doesn't work for you, then--just like in yoga--you have the option to modify, or completely opt out. Everyone is encouraged to participate at their own comfort level, and our facilitators do a fabulous job demonstrating what that looks like, so it feels good for everyone.

So how does this all add up to dating?

Great question! Think of it as a refreshing twist on the traditional dating scene. You'll get to interact, laugh, and connect with others, and then decide who you'd like to get to know better. We put a fun spin on things by letting the ladies take the lead in choosing; they'll place one of their beads in each man's pouch that they want to connect with. They'll get a feel for the guys' personalities and presence, while the men are guided on how to be grounded and open-hearted. Afterwards, either party can contact the other. It's all about letting connections unfold naturally.

What is the schedule?

  • Doors Open: Right at the start time, we'll check you in, hand over your dating materials, and give you a playing card for a super fun Ice Breaker game. You've got until the stations begin to mix and mingle!
  • 20 minutes in: Time to let in folks from the waiting list, making sure everything's balanced and ready to roll.
  • 30 minutes in: Ice Breaker game wraps up, and the doors close. Now the real fun begins as we kick off the event. Be sure to check in before this time, or you'll miss out on all the excitement! (Running late or need to cancel? Check our policy below.)
  • End of the Night: You'll feel the warm glow of connection and may not want it to end. While we'll gently nudge you toward the door, it's common for guests to join together for dinner, continuing the connections and conversations. Who knows? Your night might just be getting started!

What should I wear?

Think comfort with a touch of your best self! You'll be sitting and also moving, so choose an outfit that lets you feel relaxed but still sharp. Just remember, it's a date, so grooming matters. And go easy on strong scents; some people are sensitive.

Is there food or drink at the event?

We usually don't serve food or drinks (unless it's a special event), so feel free to bring a water bottle. Snacks might be good for before or after, but check with the venue, as some don't allow food. As tempting as a quick bite during the event might be, you'll want all your attention on your dates. And remember, alcohol is a no-go, so please arrive with a clear and ready mind.

How many dates will I have?

Get ready for a lively evening with up to 20 opportunities to connect! Our events typically max out at around 40 singles. Assuming a balanced mix, you'll have the chance to spark a connection with up to 20 different people. And, we're all about quality not quantity. You'll find each moment meaningful as you dive into engaging exchanges with others who, just like you, are looking to explore connection and authenticity.

What is the gender balance at the event?

We don't believe in leaving anyone out of the fun, so we do our best to aim for an equal gender balance. Of course, it isn't always 100% under our control--even our matchmaking powers have their limits. But so far, just about every event has been sold out. And since we have an equal number of tickets per gender, they've all had a solid mix of singles ready to mingle! (We also occasionally use door sales magic to balance the gender too.)

What if I don't match with anyone?

As many of our attendees say, "I don't even care if I match with anyone, this was amazing!" That said, we geek out on data. Our statistics say there is a 94.09% chance you'll match with AT LEAST one person. But if for whatever reason the probability fails you, we've got you covered. Your next ticket will be free!

What is the age range?

Some events have a suggested age range (noted in the title and description) and some are open to all ages. Whether you're a little outside the range or just curious about meeting people within it, you're welcome here.

Our most popular events are open to all ages, drawing a vibrant and diverse crowd. Singles 30-45 tend to be the largest group. Followed by folks 45+ and then 20s. And while age might be a curiosity, what truly sets our events apart is the connection experience.

But here's the thing. It's more than just about the dates. And this is what makes Tantra Speed Date® unique. Singles everywhere rave about how the experience itself can be quite transformative, regardless of their matches. Why? Simply engaging consciously with other singles in a positive and structured way promotes more healthy relationships. And it just plain feels good to connect with real people. You likely have never experienced dating in such a fun and comfortable way. You'll gain confidence, pick up new skills, and will likely start to attract more quality people into your life. That's what our participants say over and over again!

Will there be enough people?

Don't let low RSVPs in one spot fool you. Our events often sell out faster than you can say "Namaste," and often with a waiting list. We're keen to promote across various platforms, and they don't all show the same love. Rest assured, we make sure there's always a crowd worth your while. So come on down; your next amazing connection could be just one RSVP away!

Do I have to be single to attend?

Ah, the modern relationship landscape—a tapestry of statuses! While you don't need to be 'single' in the traditional sense, you do need to be in a space where romantic connections are possible. If you're already committed and not open to new love, you may want to consider our couples events. But if you find your heart's door ajar, even just a smidge—or if you're teetering on the edge of 'ready to date'—this could be the perfect space to explore what's possible. Consider this your invitation to a playground of connection, perfect for testing the waters!

Is this a heterosexual event and is there a Queer/LGBTQ Tantra Speed Date?

Diversity is the spice of life, and we're cooking up all kinds of flavors! This classic version of Tantra Speed Date® is primarily designed for men-seeking-women and women-seeking-men. In this setup you'll find yourself in one of two gendered circles—one for men and one for women. You'll rotate through up to 20 dates with members of the opposite gender. But don't fret, fabulous queer friends! We also host Queer Tantra Speed Date events in select cities. So if you're looking for a rainbow connection, keep an eye on our website to see when we're bringing that magic to a city near you!

What is your cancellation/refund policy?

We get it—life's a whirlwind! If you find yourself having to back out, no worries. Here's the lowdown: cancel 24 hours or more ahead and you'll get a refund or transfer, no fuss. If you're within that 24-hour window, or fashionably late and miss the opening ceremony, shoot us an email and we'll graciously "speed date" your ticket to the next event as a one-time courtesy. So keep your plans as flexible as a yoga pose, and communicate with us before the event kicks off. No refunds or transfers after the chimes ring and the magic starts!

Can I sign up with my friend?

Absolutely! We often have Bring-A-Friend ticket discounts! So thanks for sharing Tantra Speed Date® with your friends! However, do be sure to fill out their name and their email address on the attendee form. Otherwise we will not be able to check them in properly, and they will not receive all the wonderful matches they'll make at the event. If we had a nickel for how many times your friends email us wondering where their matches went... well, you get the picture. So please. Do your friends a solid and fill in their proper details.

More Questions?

Contact us at help@tantrany.com we'll be happy to tell you more about this event or others.

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