Temple Of Hedonism - Guided by Major Tom

  • Hosted by Conscious Play
  • Poway, CA -
  • 18 people on the list-

Surrender yourself to the intoxicating allure of pleasure and desires unleashed. Step into an enticing realm where we delve fearlessly into the depths of absolute pleasure. Prepare for a transformative journey, as we embark on a path of profound connection, tantalizing sensuality, erotic exploration, and the uncharted territories of DEEP pleasure! 

Embrace your desires, bring forth your lovers, toys, and skills, and allow us to create an unforgettable playground of uninhibited play!

Welcome to a premium erotic event like no other.

Under the guidance of Major Tom, a masterful intimacy coach, we will embark on a series of activities designed to ignite your hedonistic self, tapping into the realm of fantasy and uninhibited imagination. Through an opening circle and skillful facilitation, we will set the stage for your liberation. Once released, you will have the freedom to PLAY, fearlessly exploring the boundaries of your pleasure, pushing limits, and discovering exhilarating edges. 

Couples, moresomes, and solo adventurers, you are all invited to join us in this extraordinary space. Irrespective of your gender expression or sexual identity, this sanctuary embraces and celebrates the beautiful diversity of human desire. Prepare to unleash your passions and let the journey into unbridled pleasure commence.


We welcome couples, moresomes, and solo folks! All gender expressions, and sxxual identities in this space.

7:00 pm - Doors open

7:30 pm Doors lock, Welcome Circle/Facilitation TEMPLE OF HEDONISM

8:30 pm- FREE PLAY

11:45 pm Closing Circle/AfterCare

Midnight - End of Temple

Please arrive with:

-Your sxxy body, all your senses, and a clear and present mind.

-Clothing that makes you feel sxxy, empowered and embodied.

-Play toys or specialty items.


We acknowledge the anxieties that come with an event of this nature, and let you know you are not alone in feeling them. We lovingly welcome you with whatever is up. There are no expectations, you get to choose your own adventure tonight.

So take a deep breath, go do that happy-making thing that has you feeling centered and get ready to explore.

Voyuerism IS participation.

Communicate boundaries with your partner(s)

We ask that you have an honest conversation with any partners you have around your desires and boundaries before you arrive at the party so that you are all on the same page.

What is Consent? (Language borrowed from Planned Parenthood)

Freely given. Consenting is a choice you make without pressure, manipulation, or under the influence of drugs or alcohol. Reversible. Anyone can change their mind about what they feel like doing, anytime. Even if you’ve done it before, and even if you’re both naked in bed.

Informed. You can only consent to something if you have the full story. For example, if someone says they’ll use a condom and then they don’t, there isn’t full consent.

Enthusiastic. When it comes to sex, you should only do stuff you WANT to do, not things that you feel you’re expected to do.

Specific. Saying yes to one thing (like going to the bedroom to make out) doesn’t mean you’ve said yes to others (like having sxx).

With this in mind, we expect everyone to show up in love and a willingness to help us cultivate a welcoming space for all.

*Any oppressive, discriminatory, or non-consensual behavior will NOT be tolerated.

We require ALL guests to be present, connected & in control.


Doors open at 7:00 PM and CLOSE AT 8:00 PM. BE ON TIME as it is essential to have everyone present for the opening circle. There will not be anyone admitted after the doors are closed to preserve the safety of our space. The Welcome Circle is what we use to introduce ourselves to one another, craft meaningful conversations, share any boundaries and relationship agreements people should know about, and get all comfy and ready to play. There will be a closing circle at midnight.

PLEASE email Major if you're unavoidably running late, but please be on time!


Love Exchange beginning at $99 for male-identified, $69 for female-identified or nonbinary or $150 for pairs

We have a few sliding scale and scholarship tickets for some savvy female identified folk, just contact Major Tom

Join early as we have limited the capacity and this will sell out!! 🙂

💙Love and gratitude💙

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Major is an intimacy coach/facilitator at, co-founder of Temple Of Hedonism, and Co-Producer of

As a budding expert in the realm of intimacy, his profound expertise shines through. Trained as an authentic relating facilitator, he seamlessly integrates the profound principles of integral theory into his craft. Through a myriad of practices, he masterfully crafts exercises that transcend the boundaries of mere acting and movement, delving into the depths of human connection and vulnerability. With a profound understanding of the intricacies of intimacy, he illuminates the path towards profound self-discovery and genuine connection, leaving a lasting impact on those fortunate enough to experience his transformative guidance.

Embracing his calling as a Pleasure Positive and Intimacy Coach, he gracefully assumes the role of an Ethical Hedonism Leader and conscious sexuality facilitator. With unwavering intent, he strives to foster courageous and inclusive spaces, granting individuals the sacred permission to embark upon a profound journey of self-exploration. Guided by a deep understanding of human desires and passions, he empowers individuals to navigate the vast landscapes of their being, encouraging them to embrace and celebrate all aspects of themselves. Through his compassionate guidance and profound insights, he illuminates the transformative path towards authentic self-expression, empowering individuals to forge a harmonious connection between pleasure, intimacy, and personal growth.

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