Tending your Inner Circle

Learn what healthy secure attachment looks and feels like. Slow down to observe who are your closest bonds in your life right now. Cherish the ways your attachment system is already nourished. Learn about 18 different kinds of intimacy. Identify the ways you most love to love and be loved! Notice the kinds of intimacy you already have with your closest people. Are there kinds of intimacy you long for with your nearest and dearest? Or with new people?

This workshop is a chance to lift any relationship fog and to see clearly where you are on your relationship path, and where you want to be! Notice any stories that have been getting in the way of you wanting what you want. Practice voicing your relationship desires clearly. Be seen, heard, and celebrated in your desires.

Is this the right thing at the right time?

If you are experiencing a lot of grief from a recent separation or de-escalation, you may be more supported by starting with Grieving Partnership with an Open Heart.

Z (they/them, aka Zahava) is the founder of Embody More Love, a spiritual kinky dance community for personal & cultural liberation. Z has been supporting students & clients since 1999, with their love & sexuality. This body of work came specifically from their professional trainings with the Academy for Coaching Excellence, Give yourself to love, & Urban Tantra Pro as well as conversations with relationship colleagues Jessica Fern, Zo Tobi, & KamalaDevi. Z has been poly for 20+ years, relational adventuring in many different relationship structures, styles, & cultures including a 24/7 D/s relationship, having 2 simultaneous primary partners, being part of a poly family, experimenting with 14 lovers to see if we all wanted to live together, periods of choosing to be romantically & sexually celibate, as well as living in 3 different intentional communities. All of these relational experiences, in their glory & challenges, have grown Z's heart & expanded their perspective. Z's currently in the most healthy securely attached primary partnership of their life, with a close inner circle.