Tension NYC is a rope-centered gathering at The Sanctuary of East Harlem — created for people who want intentional rope play without the rigid structure of the just rope and play later format.
If you want to arrive and dive straight into a full rope scene, you can.
If you want space to explore, practice, and build connection through rope, there’s room for that too.
No performances. No expectations.
Just people, rope, and the connections that form when both are handled with intention.
3:00 PM | Doors Open
4:00 PM | Rules & Consent Agreements
Welcome Circle + Agreements Review
4:15 - 8:00 PM | Open Rope Practices and Play
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Go light. Go deep. Negotiate clearly and play fully.
The Sanctuary of East Harlem is a members-based space, and Tension NYC is shaped by the values and culture of our community — care, intention, and accountability. Membership isn’t required to attend, but joining allows you to engage more deeply, access discounted events and participate in our weekly online room, Conscious Conversartions, for free.
Held by The Kink Collective facilitators, grounded in our philosophy:People Before Kink. You can expect a space where consent, clarity, and care are prioritized — and where exploration is supported, not pushed.
Date: Saturday, April 19th
Time: 3:00–8:00 PM
Location: The Sanctuary of East Harlem, 113 E 125th St. 10035 NY, NY.
Who: All genders & orientations welcome
Snacks & Drinks: Bring something to share; water/tea/coffee provided
Dress Code: Comfortable & confident
Photography: Optional, negotiated, 100% consent-based
Accessibility: One flight of stairs (20 steps); push door firmly on arrival
$30 Member’s Ticket, $40 Solo, $60 Partners (2 Tickets)
🎟 Get Your Advance Tickets, Here.
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