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Twisted Hearts - Love Bites!

The Bay Area’s Favorite Kinky Anti-Valentines Party Returns…

This Valentine’s Day, ditch the clichés, skip the pressure, and join us for a kinky play party that celebrates independence, fun, and freedom from all the sappy stuff. Twisted Hearts is your sanctuary for an unforgettable, unromantic escape. Whether you're single, partnered, poly, or just tired of the heart-shaped fluff, this event is your chance to embrace the unconventional, celebrate independence, and indulge in your kinkiest desires.

Twisted Hearts is the perfect opportunity to connect with other like-minded folks to explore, learn, and play with. Whether you are single, coupled or in a poly dynamic, you are welcome and invited to join us at Twisted Hearts. We will be featuring all kinds of decadent delights that would cause even the kinkiest cupid to blush!

Reminder - Singles, couples, throuples, and all other relationship configurations are encouraged to attend!

If you personally identify with any flavor except vanilla - head on down to Twisted Hearts on February 14th to be with your people. We look forward to seeing everyone there!

Twisted Hearts Highlights:

Date & Time: Friday, February 14, 8:00 PM - 1:00 AM

Location: Stopgap, San Francisco, CA (the exact venue address will be sent to ticket holders only for privacy and safety reasons, but it is in SoMa).

Features:

  1. Shred Your Ex Station: Bring your old love letters, photos, or mementos and let the catharsis begin! Paper shredder provided!
  2. House Tops at Your Service: Ready to help you indulge your playful side with samplers for newcomers and veterans alike.
  3. DJ Spazatron will be spinning the decks with an anti-Valentine's playlist: dance the night away to breakup anthems, empowering jams, and tunes that laugh in the face of love.
  4. Inclusive Vibes: Whether you’re rolling solo, with friends, or in a couple, this is your space to party without the pressure.
  5. Multiple play areas equipped for BDSM and sexual activities.
  6. Accessible ground floor with accessible play equipment.
  7. Stickers and wristband system to facilitate connections.
  8. Dedicated social area, dungeon, fuck room, and non-sexual cuddle room.
  9. Delicious spread, including vegan options.

Inclusivity & Safety:

We warmly invite and encourage individuals of all ages, races, ethnicities, gender identities, sexual orientations, and abilities to attend our event. We are committed to creating an inclusive and welcoming environment where everyone can feel safe, respected, and celebrated. Your unique identity and experiences enrich our community, and we look forward to sharing this special experience with you.

Consent and respectful behavior required. Read the event rules and consent guidelines.

Accessibility Notes:

The entrance to the space is on the ground floor and is fully-accessible, including lockers, social areas, play areas, and two accessible bathrooms. The basement of the venue can only be reached via stairs. There will be music playing throughout the night, and ear plugs are available for free at the front desk. There are colored lights in use throughout the venue, including rotating “party lights” for ambiance. Cell phones are prohibited from being used in the venue and must be stored; however, you may speak to a host about reasonable accommodations if needed for things such as continuous glucose monitoring.

COVID-19 Safety Measures:

  1. All guests MUST take a rapid test on the day of the event, before arriving, and write the date on the test or immediately next to the test.
  2. Take a photo of the negative test & show it to the door guard when you arrive.
  3. We will have a limited number of tests for sale at $25 each in case anyone is unable to pretest.

Dress Code:

Kinky, leather, sexy, or all black—dress to impress yourself. Rock that head-turning outfit, whether it’s your favorite leather corset, sleek black suit, or a sexy little number that makes you feel unstoppable.

While dressing to the theme is strongly encouraged in order to help maintain the immersive ambiance of the night, lingerie or general fetishwear are also welcome as are dungeon blacks. We encourage you to dress up - make an effort to impress but if nothing else comes to mind then dress as you would for a fancy night out.

Please be mindful that you might have to wait in line outside (it may be cold) and that you are welcome to arrive in regular clothes and then change into your kinky outfit once you get inside!

Tickets:

Presale tickets are highly recommended to save money and secure your spot. Ticket prices are tiered as follows and include all fees.

  1. Tier 1 - $45 (15)
  2. Tier 2 - $60 (30)
  3. Tier 3 - $75
  4. Door - $100 (Includes COVID Test)
  5. Financial Access: $25 (4)
  6. Volunteer: $0

We recommend getting your tickets as soon as possible! If you are a member of one of our partner groups, please check with your group for discount codes.

Consent is Paramount

Part of our responsibility in fostering a consent culture is to provide some guidance to help prevent consent incidents from happening at our events.

Please make sure you read and understand our event rules and consent guidelines before you come to any AfterDark event. By coming to an event you acknowledge that you understand the rules and agree to abide by them. If you have any questions or need clarification on any of our rules or guidelines please contact us before coming to an event.

Any consent concerns can be confidentially given to the hosts at the event or by email at info@afterdark-events.com.

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