The Hallowed Sanctum

Enter the Sanctum... a dungeon veiled in black drapes, lit by flickering candles and fiery lights.

Chains hang heavy, cuffs and rope await eager hands, and the air hums with the unmistakable tension of pain, pleasure, and surrender.

This is a night of ritual and intensity — a space where dominance and submission come alive in leather and rope, where cries of release echo across the dungeon.

Every strike, restraint, and caress fuels the fire of raw intentional energy.

The Experience

1. Furnished zones with a St. Andrews cross, spanking bench, massage tables, hard points for partial suspensions, and kneeling benches.
2. Enjoy Impact play, electro play, Bondage, sensory and sensation play, etc
3. Areas for sensation for teasing, seduction, and the slow burn of desire and bondage,
4. Aftercare zones, dimly lit, where connection softens the edges of intensity.
5. You should bring your own gear for play: floggers, paddles, whips, etc. and rope, cuffs, and restraints for those craving surrender or control.
6. Here, the dungeon becomes sacred: pain and pleasure entwined, power exchanged, desires unchained.

Dress Code

Dress to Seduce (and Scare 😈) This is not just a party — it’s a ritual. Step into the Sanctum dressed to embody your darkest desires. Clothing is optional inside the dungeon...

1. Halloween Elegance – seductive costumes, masks, and eerie allure.
2. Leather & Latex – classic dungeon energy, sleek and commanding.
3. Bondage & Fetishwear – harnesses, straps, collars, cuffs.
4. Erotic & Playful – lingerie, mesh, or your sexiest interpretation of spooky and sultry.

Dungeon Etiquette & Expectations

1. Consent - Negotiate before you play, respect boundaries, and honor every “no.”
2. Safewords guide the night. Yellow = check-in. Red = stop immediately.
3. Sexual energy is welcome within scenes where full negotiation and explicit consent have been given.
4. Roles are playful, not a hierarchy. Tops and bottoms share responsibility in creating connection.
5. Responsibility is shared. You are accountable for yourself, your partner(s), and the energy you bring into the space.
6. Arrive prepared. Be freshly showered, clean, and respectful of those around you.
7. Aftercare matters. Whether fiery impact or tender touch, all play closes with care and connection.

Meet Your Facilitator

This container will be guided by Dan // @SDanNYC on fetlife , a seasoned member of the Kink Collective known for creating relaxed, welcoming spaces for erotic play. Dan emphasizes safety, consent, and connection — reminding participants that this is as much about presence and community as it is about the intensity of the act itself. His facilitation ensures that whether you’re a newcomer or deeply experienced, you’ll feel held, supported, and free to explore at your own pace.

FAQ

Do I have to play?

1. Absolutely not. Watching, socializing, and asking questions are equally valid ways to participate. You’ll never be pressured to do anything you don’t want to do.

What should I wear?

1. Dress code is “comfortable and confident.” We’re not a dungeon, so wear whatever helps you feel like your best self. This is a special holiday event, dress up is encouraged but not required

Food & Drink?

1. We keep it communal. Bring a snack to share and a beverage you enjoy. We’ll provide water, tea, coffee, and lollipops.

Photography?

1. Optional and always consent-based. Our resident photographer, Victor, will only take photos with explicit pre-scene negotiation and enthusiastic agreement.

Event Flow

8:00 PM: Doors Open - Meet, mingle, and socialize

8:45 PM: Opening Circle - Introductions, intentions, and rules for safe play

9:00 PM–1AM: Open Play

Event Details

When: Friday October 31, 2025

Time: 8PM–1AM

Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem, 113 E 125th St, NY, NY 10035 (Push the outside door firmly; space is up one flight of stairs. Not wheelchair accessible.)

Tickets

1. Member: $30.00
2. Regular: $40.00