The Love You Want: Discover Your True Intimacy Style for Authentic Connections

This is a hybrid class, so you can join us in person or tune in live from home.

Are you feeling stuck in patterns that don’t serve you—or confused about what kind of relationship style is right for you?

Whether you're exploring polyamory, committed to monogamy, or something in between, this deep-dive workshop will help you clarify what you actually want out of love and intimacy—beyond unspoken expectations and social constructs.

Through guided reflection, group conversation, and practical tools, you’ll learn to understand your values, identify your relationship needs, and express your desires with more clarity and confidence.

In this workshop, we’ll explore:

1. The hidden scripts behind modern love, and how they shape your expectations
2. Different types of attraction, connection, and relationship styles
3. The brain chemistry of love (and how to stay grounded in NRE)
4. Your personal values and desires—what matters most to you
5. How to recognize patterns, unlearn limiting beliefs, and build conscious relationships
6. How to speak up for your needs and wants with courage and care
7. This is a welcoming space for singles, couples, and curious folks of all identities and orientations. You don’t need to fit a label to benefit—you just need a desire to relate more authentically.

$40-80 (sliding scale)

In-person HouseOfPleasure

Online via Zoom

Bring: A notebook, pen, water, and your curiosity.

About Your Instructor:

Kat is an Erotic Life Coach and ISEE Certified Holistic Sex Educator specializing in alternative relationship dynamics. With over a decade of experience in conscious relating, Kat helps folks reconnect with themselves and each other through compassion, play, and clarity.