The ORIGINAL How to Eat Pussy like a Champ workshop! As a queer woman and pussy eating enthusiast, sex and intimacy coach and educator Dr. Alison Ash of TurnON.love offers valuable insights for both givers and receivers!
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We all want to give and receive deeply gratifying sexual pleasure, but sex education is woefully inadequate and most porn does not depict realistic sexuality. This is an incredibly impactful workshop for receivers and givers of all experience levels. Both individuals and couples are welcome!
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“I had my FIRST MULTIPLE ORGASMS ever, immediately following the workshop! My partner and I got way more creative and communicative about everything. I trust him with my pussy on a new level. My confidence grew. I knew more about what turns me on and when, and how to communicate this effectively and sexily.” - A.G.
“I was able to apply what I learned the next day and my partner squirted 4 times! This is the first time I have been able to achieve this result. I paid a lot of attention to slowing down and really listening to my partner and not just going in without a game plan. The pleasure increase I was able to provide increased my confidence and I enjoyed the sexual experience even more knowing that my partner was enjoying it.“ - L.L.
“I’ve just always been so nervous about having someone between my legs. The pressure of time or that he wasn’t liking it or the ‘how do I smell’ and ‘what do I taste like’ was replaced by ‘let’s try this’ and ‘how does that feel’ and we just played around for hours. And eventually, not really worrying about it, led to the FIRST ORGASM from oral that I have had in TEN YEARS!!” - M.S.
“My communication with my primary partner got instantly smoother and our sexual connection improved as a result. Moreover, the suggested exercises gave me shortcuts for how to learn about new partners’ preferences in a hot way.” - J.H.
“I came into it expecting to learn a lot of things to teach my future partners and in no way expected to learn how to become a better communicator and receiver. All valuable lessons that I won't soon forget. Thank you for that!" - J.D.
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Dr. Alison Ash, aka Dr. Aly, is a trauma-informed intimacy coach and educator, Stanford University Lecturer, author, and founder of TurnON.love. As a sociologist with a PhD from Stanford, she has a comprehensive understanding of the complex societal challenges that often lead to unsatisfying and disempowering intimate experiences. She has helped pioneer research into the orgasm gap and has written on topics ranging from pleasure in heterosexual dynamics to queer and trans identities and experiences. She also draws on her extensive training in Hakomi Mindful Somatic Psychotherapy, Innate Somatic Intelligence Trauma Therapy Approach, and Somatica Method of sex and intimacy coaching to support her clients to radically explore and courageously express themselves. Dr. Aly designs workshops, courses, and retreats and offers individuals and couples coaching to give others the tools to be able to cultivate and sustain nourishing emotional and sexual intimacy.
She invites you to TurnON pleasure, intimacy and love at www.TurnON.love and on Instagram and Facebook.
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* Tickets are not refundable. They may be transferred to another individual but not to a future event.
* I offer one volunteer ticket per event, and while I appreciate those that love to be of service, I ask that you save this opportunity for those who require financial assistance to be able to attend. You may also apply for a sliding scale ticket.
* Please take an at-home antigen test on the day of the workshop and take a photo of your results. Tests can also be purchased at the door for $10. If you are feeling unwell or develop symptoms, please stay home. Masks will be optional.
* I welcome folks of all genders, sexual orientations, relationship structures, ages, body types, abilities, races, and ethnicities.
* This venue is partially accessible. The workshop space is wheelchair accessible, but the bathrooms are not. There is a gender inclusive bathroom on site.
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Tuesdays April 22nd-May 27th on Zoom
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Also available as an on-demand rental
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Also available as an on-demand rental
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Also available as an on-demand rental
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Also available as an on-demand rental
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Also available as an on-demand rental
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