The ORIGINAL How to Eat Pussy like a Champ workshop! As a queer woman and pussy eating enthusiast, sex and intimacy coach and educator Dr. Alison Ash of TurnON.love offers valuable insights for both givers and receivers!
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We all want to give and receive deeply gratifying sexual pleasure, but sex education is woefully inadequate and most porn does not depict realistic sexuality. This is an incredibly impactful workshop for receivers and givers of all experience levels. Both individuals and couples are welcome!
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“I had my FIRST MULTIPLE ORGASMS ever, immediately following the workshop! My partner and I got way more creative and communicative about everything. I trust him with my pussy on a new level. My confidence grew. I knew more about what turns me on and when, and how to communicate this effectively and sexily.” - A.G.
“I was able to apply what I learned the next day and my partner squirted 4 times! This is the first time I have been able to achieve this result. I paid a lot of attention to slowing down and really listening to my partner and not just going in without a game plan. The pleasure increase I was able to provide increased my confidence and I enjoyed the sexual experience even more knowing that my partner was enjoying it.“ - L.L.
“I’ve just always been so nervous about having someone between my legs. The pressure of time or that he wasn’t liking it or the ‘how do I smell’ and ‘what do I taste like’ was replaced by ‘let’s try this’ and ‘how does that feel’ and we just played around for hours. And eventually, not really worrying about it, led to the FIRST ORGASM from oral that I have had in TEN YEARS!!” - M.S.
“My communication with my primary partner got instantly smoother and our sexual connection improved as a result. Moreover, the suggested exercises gave me shortcuts for how to learn about new partners’ preferences in a hot way.” - J.H.
“I came into it expecting to learn a lot of things to teach my future partners and in no way expected to learn how to become a better communicator and receiver. All valuable lessons that I won't soon forget. Thank you for that!" - J.D.
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Dr. Alison Ash, aka Dr. Aly, is a trauma-informed intimacy coach and educator, Stanford University Lecturer, author, and founder of TurnON.love. As a sociologist with a PhD from Stanford, she has a comprehensive understanding of the complex societal challenges that often lead to unsatisfying and disempowering intimate experiences. She has helped pioneer research into the orgasm gap and has written on topics ranging from pleasure in heterosexual dynamics to queer and trans identities and experiences. She also draws on her extensive training in Hakomi Mindful Somatic Psychotherapy, Innate Somatic Intelligence Trauma Therapy Approach, and Somatica Method of sex and intimacy coaching to support her clients to radically explore and courageously express themselves. Dr. Aly designs workshops, courses, and retreats and offers individuals and couples coaching to give others the tools to be able to cultivate and sustain nourishing emotional and sexual intimacy.
She invites you to TurnON pleasure, intimacy and love at www.TurnON.love and on Instagram and Facebook.
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* Tickets are not refundable. They may be transferred to another individual but not to a future event.
* I offer one volunteer ticket per event, and while I appreciate those that love to be of service, I ask that you save this opportunity for those who require financial assistance to be able to attend. You may also apply for a sliding scale ticket.
* Please take an at-home antigen test on the day of the workshop and take a photo of your results. Tests can also be purchased at the door for $10. If you are feeling unwell or develop symptoms, please stay home. Masks will be optional.
* I welcome folks of all genders, sexual orientations, relationship structures, ages, body types, abilities, races, and ethnicities.
* This venue is partially accessible. The workshop space is wheelchair accessible, but the bathrooms are not. There is a gender inclusive bathroom on site.
Feb 20th, Oakland
What better way to learn practical sex education that you can actually use when you get home than to watch two sex educators go head-to-head and reveal their best moves? Join me and world-renowned sex and relationship geek Reid Mihalko for an evening of LIVE demonstrations and watch as we share our personal stories and bedroom secrets! Sex Educator Showdown is an entertaining, informational, guaranteed-to-be-funny and friendly “competitive” throw down you don’t want to miss!
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February 23rd, Oakland
We will be your Head Deans (see what we did there?!) and give you your PhD in oral so you can give and/or receive mind-blowing blowjobs, cunnilingus, and analingus that leaves you and your lovers feeling satisfied, confident, and glowing with appreciation! This workshop will take your current craft & skills to Jedi levels with our advanced-level tips and techniques! Oral Sex Grad school is a wealth of sex geekery and skills in expert giving and receiving!
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March 19th in Oakland
Also available as an on-demand rental
Do you get stuck in your head worrying about your appearance, performance, orgasm, or just your overwhelming to-do list? Do you find yourself performing sex instead of experiencing it? Learning how to get out of your head and into your body is essential for reducing anxiety and maximizing pleasure in both solo and shared sexual experiences! Discover how to immerse in the sensations in your body and reconnect with your body as an instrument of pleasure. You'll receive actionable tips and skills that will help you get out of your head and become a more skilled lover while increasing your own capacity for pleasure!
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March 27th in Oakland
Also available as an on-demand rental
Exploring non-monogamy can feel overwhelming and downright terrifying, but with the proper support and tools it can be exciting and empowering! Examine how your values and needs influence which relationship styles will work best for you. Explore how to open up and find poly people to date. Examine the most common pitfalls and how to avoid them and gain concrete tips that will help your relationship(s) survive and thrive. With these resources, suggestions, and tools you’ll receive the support you need to explore ethical non-monogamy with greater clarity and ease! Also available as an on-demand rental!
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April 10th in Oakland
Also available as an on-demand rental
Empower yourself with the know-how and tools you need to have secure and fulfilling non-monogamous relationships. Discover tools for navigating jealousy and how to support a partner when they're feeling jealous. Examine power dynamics in and across various types of relationship structures, and learn how to empower all participants. Explore techniques for discussing fears and needs and negotiating agreements with lovers and partners. Gain tips for having healthy dynamics with metamours (your partners’ partners). Up level your ability to maintain multiple nourishing relationships! Also available as an on-demand rental!
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April 24th-27th in Sonoma
Also available as an on-demand rental
Do you and your partner miss that old feeling of excitement and passion that has faded into complacency and predictability? Struggling with different libidos, relating to sex like it’s a chore, and feeling rejection and resentment are just some of the challenges couples in long-term relationships face. When intimacy gets stagnant it can be hard to find ways to reconnect sexually that feel genuine and pleasurable. Escape the distractions of daily life and immerse yourselves in a transformative 3-night, 4-day retreat and reignite passion, rebuild intimacy, and create a sustainable foundation for lasting connection.
You will:
* Learn how to get out of the anxious-avoidant dynamic, cohabitator-coparent roles, and the pressure-rejection cycle
* Uncover the various libido blockers that get in the way of your turn on, pleasure, and intimacy and how to overcome them
* Explore how to make verbal, physical, and romantic bids for intimacy that will allow you to effectively woo your partner
* Discover how to create fun and exciting intimacy dates with a menu of ways to connect authentically and without pressure.
* Acquire an array of practices that will support you to rediscover your turn on and increase your capacity for giving and receiving pleasure.
* Receive the 35 page Sustainable Intimacy booklet that will enable you to identify your specific intimacy blockers, engage in self-reflection exercises, and record the specific practices that will empower you to continue to nurture your intimacy.
You’ll also have the ability to:
* Eat delicious, local organic food that meets your dietary restrictions
* Lounge in a big, beautiful heated pool and hot tub and immerse in nourishing nature
* Rest in hammocks under the trees and take in stunning vistas on hillside swings
* Explore the trail system that winds through the property
* Take yoga, movement, and mindfulness classes
* Take a bonus workshop on romantic, passionate, and dominant touch
* Participate in a sensual soiree
* Add on couples massages
There are options for camping, glamping, and gorgeous private rooms, including one that has a private sauna and soaking tub overlooking the woods! Check out the detailed schedule, photos of the property and lodging options, and more!
How to Be a Feminist in the Bedroom
Navigating Non-Monogamy Level 1
Mastering Non-Monogamy Level 2
Refining Your Sexual Intuition
Repairing Ruptures in Relationships
Sexual and Emotional Intimacy Skills (8 week course for individuals and couples)
Sustainable Intimacy: Reignite the Flame for the Long Game (4 week course for couples)
The Ins and Outs of Play Parties