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The ORIGINAL How to Eat Pussy like a Champ

The ORIGINAL How to Eat Pussy like a Champ workshop! As a queer woman and pussy eating enthusiast, sex and intimacy coach and educator Dr. Alison Ash of TurnON.love offers valuable insights for both givers and receivers!

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What makes this workshop unique from attempts to replicate it?

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  1. Comprehensive anatomy, including the various nerve pathways involved so you can understand the different kinds of orgasms that are possible as well as science-based techniques for how to explore them.
  2. Skills for getting out of your head and overcoming awkwardness so you can feel pleasure from receiving and giving.
  3. A wide range of techniques for maximizing pleasure with your hand and mouth as well as the many ways to mix it up, including different positions, squirting, using toys, and incorporating ass stimulation.
  4. Support for receivers so they can more fully identify preference and learn how to ask for it, increase their capacity to receive, and take a more active role in cultivating their own pleasure.
  5. Support for givers so they can elicit feedback, attune and calibrate effectively, feel confident exploring the diverse range of what pussies enjoy, and be equipped to skillfully pleasure them all. Learn how to tease and progress in a thoroughly titillating manner to create mental turn on and stimulate the internal clitoris.
  6. A live demo so you can see how to put all the skills in action, including communicating desires, exploring preferences, an extensive warm-up, and a wide range of techniques.
  7. A comprehensive How to Eat Pussy Like A Champ handout covering the 5 Central Tenets of Champ-Quality Pussy Eating and a Guide to My Pussy instruction manual to share with lover(s).

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We all want to give and receive deeply gratifying sexual pleasure, but sex education is woefully inadequate and most porn does not depict realistic sexuality. This is an incredibly impactful workshop for receivers and givers of all experience levels. Both individuals and couples are welcome!

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Testimonials

“I had my FIRST MULTIPLE ORGASMS ever, immediately following the workshop! My partner and I got way more creative and communicative about everything. I trust him with my pussy on a new level. My confidence grew. I knew more about what turns me on and when, and how to communicate this effectively and sexily.” - A.G.

“I was able to apply what I learned the next day and my partner squirted 4 times! This is the first time I have been able to achieve this result. I paid a lot of attention to slowing down and really listening to my partner and not just going in without a game plan. The pleasure increase I was able to provide increased my confidence and I enjoyed the sexual experience even more knowing that my partner was enjoying it.“ - L.L.

“I’ve just always been so nervous about having someone between my legs. The pressure of time or that he wasn’t liking it or the ‘how do I smell’ and ‘what do I taste like’ was replaced by ‘let’s try this’ and ‘how does that feel’ and we just played around for hours. And eventually, not really worrying about it, led to the FIRST ORGASM from oral that I have had in TEN YEARS!!” - M.S.

“My communication with my primary partner got instantly smoother and our sexual connection improved as a result. Moreover, the suggested exercises gave me shortcuts for how to learn about new partners’ preferences in a hot way.” - J.H.

“I came into it expecting to learn a lot of things to teach my future partners and in no way expected to learn how to become a better communicator and receiver. All valuable lessons that I won't soon forget. Thank you for that!" - J.D.

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Instructor Bio

Dr. Alison Ash, aka Dr. Aly, is a trauma-informed intimacy coach and educator, Stanford University Lecturer, author, and founder of TurnON.love. As a sociologist with a PhD from Stanford, she has a comprehensive understanding of the complex societal challenges that often lead to unsatisfying and disempowering intimate experiences. She has helped pioneer research into the orgasm gap and has written on topics ranging from pleasure in heterosexual dynamics to queer and trans identities and experiences. She also draws on her extensive training in Hakomi Mindful Somatic Psychotherapy, Innate Somatic Intelligence Trauma Therapy Approach, and Somatica Method of sex and intimacy coaching to support her clients to radically explore and courageously express themselves. Dr. Aly designs workshops, courses, and retreats and offers individuals and couples coaching to give others the tools to be able to cultivate and sustain nourishing emotional and sexual intimacy.

She invites you to TurnON pleasure, intimacy and love at www.TurnON.love and on Instagram and Facebook.

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Additional details

* Tickets are not refundable. They may be transferred to another individual but not to a future event.

* I offer one volunteer ticket per event, and while I appreciate those that love to be of service, I ask that you save this opportunity for those who require financial assistance to be able to attend. You may also apply for a sliding scale ticket.

* Please take an at-home antigen test on the day of the workshop and take a photo of your results. Tests can also be purchased at the door for $10. If you are feeling unwell or develop symptoms, please stay home. Masks will be optional.

* I welcome folks of all genders, sexual orientations, relationship structures, ages, body types, abilities, races, and ethnicities.

* This venue is partially accessible. The workshop space is wheelchair accessible, but the bathrooms are not. There is a gender inclusive bathroom on site.

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Also available as an on-demand rental

Givers will learn how to discover what turns their lover(s) on and explore a wide range of techniques for maximizing pleasure. Receivers will learn how to surrender into sensation while also taking a more active role in cultivating their own pleasure. Discover all the nerve pathways involved so you can understand the different kinds of orgasms possible as well as science-based techniques for how to explore them. Plus, there's a thorough live demo so you can see all the skills put into action. Both individuals and couples are welcome!

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Also available as an on-demand rental

Whether you’re looking for a hot date, a new lover, or a committed partner, how do you know if someone’s a good fit? Are you afraid you’re settling, or perhaps you’re worried you’re being too picky? Discover your non-negotiables, learn to own your needs, and create a clear and empowering filter that allows you to find the right person(s) for you. Gently and compassionately end connections that aren’t nourishing and learn how to courageously and vulnerably invite deeper intimacy with the right person(s) for you!

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Also available as an on-demand rental

Navigating mismatched libidos, feeling stuck in routines, or just craving more playfulness and pleasure are natural parts of growing together over time. In long-term relationships, it’s common to feel desire ebb and flow, to relate to sex like it’s a chore, or to quietly build up feelings of rejection or resentment. Even loving, connected couples can struggle with differences in desires, changing needs, or the pressures of daily life crowding out time for intimacy. Whether you're looking to rekindle passion or simply carve out meaningful time to nourish your relationship, this 3-night, 4-day retreat offers a spacious and supportive container to expand your erotic potential and strengthen the emotional and physical bonds between you.

You'll:

  1. Break Free from Stagnant Patterns: Learn how to move beyond the anxious-avoidant dynamic, cohabitator-coparent roles, and the pressure-rejection cycle that can stifle intimacy.
  2. Uncover & Overcome Libido Blockers: Identify what’s getting in the way of your desire, pleasure, and connection—and learn how to dissolve those barriers.
  3. Master the Art of Intimacy Bids: Explore how to make verbal, physical, and romantic invitations that genuinely woo your partner and spark connection.
  4. Create Fun & Exciting Intimacy Dates: Receive a curated menu of ways to connect authentically—without pressure or performance.
  5. Rediscover Your Turn-On & Pleasure: Engage in practices that will expand your capacity to both give and receive pleasure in ways that feel deeply fulfilling.
  6. Sustainable Intimacy Toolkit: Take home a 35-page Sustainable Intimacy booklet filled with reflection exercises and personalized practices to continue nurturing your intimacy.
  7. Indulge in Rejuvenating Experiences: Enjoy delicious meals, a heated pool and hot tub, scenic trails, movement and mindfulness classes, a bonus workshop on passionate, romantic, and dominant touch, a sensual soirée, and more
  8. Choose from a Variety of Accommodation Options: Choose from camping and glamping for an immersive nature experience to gorgeous private rooms, including one with a private sauna and soaking tub overlooking the woods.

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Workshops and Courses On-Demand

Cultivating Your Pleasure

Feel Your Way To Yes

Free Your Fantasies

Get Out of Your Head In Bed

How to Be a Feminist in the Bedroom

How to Eat Pussy Like a Champ

How to Pick Your Person(s)

Navigating Non-Monogamy Level 1

Mastering Non-Monogamy Level 2

Refining Your Sexual Intuition

Repairing Ruptures in Relationships

Sexual and Emotional Intimacy Skills (8 week course for individuals and couples)

Sleaze-Free Seduction Skills

Sustainable Intimacy: Reignite the Flame for the Long Game (4 week course for couples)

The Ins and Outs of Play Parties

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