The ORIGINAL How to Eat Pussy like a Champ workshop! As a queer woman and pussy eating enthusiast, sex and intimacy coach and educator Dr. Alison Ash of TurnON.love offers valuable insights for both givers and receivers!
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We all want to give and receive deeply gratifying sexual pleasure, but sex education is woefully inadequate and most porn does not depict realistic sexuality. This is an incredibly impactful workshop for receivers and givers of all experience levels. Both individuals and couples are welcome!
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“I had my FIRST MULTIPLE ORGASMS ever, immediately following the workshop! My partner and I got way more creative and communicative about everything. I trust him with my pussy on a new level. My confidence grew. I knew more about what turns me on and when, and how to communicate this effectively and sexily.” - A.G.
“I was able to apply what I learned the next day and my partner squirted 4 times! This is the first time I have been able to achieve this result. I paid a lot of attention to slowing down and really listening to my partner and not just going in without a game plan. The pleasure increase I was able to provide increased my confidence and I enjoyed the sexual experience even more knowing that my partner was enjoying it.“ - L.L.
“I’ve just always been so nervous about having someone between my legs. The pressure of time or that he wasn’t liking it or the ‘how do I smell’ and ‘what do I taste like’ was replaced by ‘let’s try this’ and ‘how does that feel’ and we just played around for hours. And eventually, not really worrying about it, led to the FIRST ORGASM from oral that I have had in TEN YEARS!!” - M.S.
“My communication with my primary partner got instantly smoother and our sexual connection improved as a result. Moreover, the suggested exercises gave me shortcuts for how to learn about new partners’ preferences in a hot way.” - J.H.
“I came into it expecting to learn a lot of things to teach my future partners and in no way expected to learn how to become a better communicator and receiver. All valuable lessons that I won't soon forget. Thank you for that!" - J.D.
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Dr. Alison Ash, aka Dr. Aly, is a trauma-informed intimacy coach and educator, Stanford University Lecturer, author, and founder of TurnON.love. As a sociologist with a PhD from Stanford, she has a comprehensive understanding of the complex societal challenges that often lead to unsatisfying and disempowering intimate experiences. She has helped pioneer research into the orgasm gap and has written on topics ranging from pleasure in heterosexual dynamics to queer and trans identities and experiences. She also draws on her extensive training in Hakomi Mindful Somatic Psychotherapy, Innate Somatic Intelligence Trauma Therapy Approach, and Somatica Method of sex and intimacy coaching to support her clients to radically explore and courageously express themselves. Dr. Aly designs workshops, courses, and retreats and offers individuals and couples coaching to give others the tools to be able to cultivate and sustain nourishing emotional and sexual intimacy.
She invites you to TurnON pleasure, intimacy and love at www.TurnON.love and on Instagram and Facebook.
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* Tickets are not refundable. They may be transferred to another individual but not to a future event.
* I offer one volunteer ticket per event, and while I appreciate those that love to be of service, I ask that you save this opportunity for those who require financial assistance to be able to attend. You may also apply for a sliding scale ticket.
* Please take an at-home antigen test on the day of the workshop and take a photo of your results. Tests can also be purchased at the door for $10. If you are feeling unwell or develop symptoms, please stay home. Masks will be optional.
* I welcome folks of all genders, sexual orientations, relationship structures, ages, body types, abilities, races, and ethnicities.
* This venue is partially accessible. The workshop space is wheelchair accessible, but the bathrooms are not. There is a gender inclusive bathroom on site.
January 13th, Oakland
Has flirting always felt awkward and anxiety-provoking? Tired of letting opportunities pass you by because you’re afraid to make a move? Whether you want to learn how to create new romantic connections or improve your ability to seduce your current lover(s), this workshop will help you figure out how get freaky without being creepy! Gain verbal and non-verbal skills for flirting and seduction and feel more confident initiating. Discover how to effectively escalate flirting and how to read body language to know if they’re receptive to your advances. Learn how to recover from failed flirting attempts and how to recalibrate so you can stay in connection.
January 20th on Zoom
Your questions, my support, no judgment, no cost. Topics may include body shame and insecurities, consent and boundaries, nervous system regulation, creating emotional safety, flirting and seduction, confidence with dating and how to find people to date, maintaining the spark in long term relationships, maximizing pleasure, exploring and sharing fantasies, unpacking shame, repairing conflict, dealing with rejection and breakups, navigating ENM dynamics, anorgasmia, challenges with ED, earning secure attachment, creating novelty, exploring kink and BDSM, and more.
Tuesdays, January 27th-March 17th on Zoom
Creating a pleasure-filled sex life and emotionally secure relationships can feel elusive and frustrating. We all receive messages about who we are supposed to be, how we ought to feel, and how we should express ourselves that is often enforced through shame, silence, and disconnection. Without guidance in essential intimacy skills, these internalized messages leave us approaching connection with self-doubt, awkwardness, and anxiety.
This 8-week course offers practical tools and evidence-based techniques to connect more deeply and experience pleasure and desire more fully. Whether you’re exploring new connections or deepening a relationship, this course provides a supportive, shame-free environment that will transform your capacity for nourishing sex and thriving relationships.
All classes feature a combo of lecture with optional breakout room discussions and experiential exercises plus extra time for questions and individualized support after. Supplemental materials include handouts, readings, and demo videos.
Whether you’re entering a new relationship with someone, tending a long-term bond, or learning to feel at home in your own skin, this course supports your ability to have satisfying sex and nourishing relationships. It is open to monogamous and non-monogamous individuals and couples.
Recordings available for those who can't attend live or want extra review. Check out the detailed curriculum, reviews, and more.
April 23rd-26th in Sonoma (sliding scale camping tickets available)
In long-term relationships, desire naturally ebbs and flows. Differences in desire, changing needs, and the pressures of daily life can crowd out time for intimacy. Whether your goal is to rekindle passion or simply carve out meaningful time together, this 3-night, 4-day retreat offers a supportive space to slow down and savor each other. You’ll uncover what’s blocking intimacy and gain customized tools to support your unique dynamic. Through guided exercises, playful exploration, and enriching conversations, you’ll strengthen your emotional and physical bonds, renew desire, and expand your erotic potential. Indulge in delicious meals, a heated pool and hot tub, scenic trails, movement and mindfulness classes, a workshop on passionate and dominant touch, and a sensual soirée. You’ll leave with a 35-page Sustainable Intimacy toolkit filled with exercises and personalized practices to help you sustain intimacy long after the retreat ends
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Mastering Non-Monogamy Level 2
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Sustainable Intimacy: Reignite the Flame for the Long Game (4 week course for couples)
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