The Party Isn't Over: Desire After Body Shifts with Dirty Lola

Join Dirty Lola for a candid, filthy, and funny workshop for kinky, pleasure-forward folks navigating aging, menopause, shifting libido, and bodies that no longer behave on command. You gain tools, language, and permission to adapt your desire, evolve your kink, and stay gloriously sexual—just with better lighting and more intentional knee placement.

Have you ever looked at your changing body and thought, “Well… this is new”? This workshop is for kinky, slutty, pleasure-forward people who still want to fuck, flirt, play, and feel desirable on their own terms—even as aging, menopause, shifting libido, sore joints, hormonal chaos, and brain fog start making themselves known without asking for consent. Join Dirty Lola for an honest, funny, and deeply affirming conversation about what it means to stay sexual when your body (and sometimes your brain) starts rewriting the rules.

Together, participants will explore how to adapt the sexy things they love: how kink can evolve, desire can be rerouted, and pleasure can be renegotiated when energy, lubrication, erections, orgasms, or focus don’t behave the way they used to. This isn’t about getting back to “normal”—it’s about learning new tricks, new rhythms, and new definitions of what counts as hot. Expect practical tools, shared wisdom, language for naming what’s changing, resources for learning more, and space to grieve what’s shifting without giving up the filthy joy of being a sexual being. Aging doesn’t mean the party’s over—it just means the playlist changes, the lighting gets better, and everyone’s more intentional about where they put their knees.

This class is open to all genders, sexualities, and experience levels. Come and play!

Open to all 18+

About your Presenter:

Dirty Lola is an award-winning sex educator and speaker known for her honest, humorous approach to talking about pleasure, relationships, and self-discovery. Insta / Website

About AORTA films:

AORTA films champions queer and trans indie p()rn to create a future of ethical fuckery. An internationally award-winning studio currently celebrating their tenth year, AORTA films has been making “lusty, opulent, ethical fuckery” since 2015. Centering queer performers across a wide range of bodies and identities, AORTA films offers inventive explicit programming including 90+ short & feature films, a queer clip library, a semi-annual film festival, a guest artist series, commercial work, workshops, and more. This year, to celebrate their 10th year AORTA films launched AORTAlive, a home for live digital adult programing featuring online events including workshops, artist talks, performances, panels, and more. In addition to their site membership, all members of AORTA films get $10 tickets to all AORTAlive events. Not a member yet? See for yourself at www.AORTAfilms.com.