Plura

The Power of Control: A CF/nm Night

On Friday, we'll be hosting an intimate Clothed Female/Naked Male kind of night. This event is open to all who identify as female (whether trans, cis, non-binary, or GNC who feel this event is for them) and any who identify as male (whether trans, cis, non-binary, or GNC who feel this event is for them). While we have done our more inclusive Clothed Domme/Naked Sub (CD/ns) before, turnout suggested attendees would rather we split and individualize these events. Your wish is our command!

At The Power of Control we'll play some house party games, have some BDSM play, and enjoy a kinky night of service & fun. The space isn't huge and will offer a similar intimate feel to our other play parties that were previously hosted at New Women Space. This venue is located in Ridgewood. The L train to Halsey St.

This new venue has kink equipment! There are hard points and cuffs to be attached to, a cage, a bed, plenty of mats, a medical exam chair with stirrups, a massage table, and more.

Rules

  1. We will be hosting a consent circle and social hang from 8-9 pm. You MUST arrive during this time. The latest you can arrive is 9:30 pm. If you arrive after 9:30pm, you will not be allowed into the party. During the social hour, everyone will be clothed to allow for relaxed conversation and connection. At 9 pm there will be a stripping ceremony.
  2. BYOB is acceptable. You can also purchase some beer or wine at the venue.
  3. Bring your own toys for play. House toys will also be available.
  4. Smoking can only be done outside.
  5. Please take precautions if you are feeling sick before the event.

What Do I Need To Know

  1. Subs you're able to have on a cock cage.
  2. Trans subs who may worry about potential dysphoria may wear a jockstrap.
  3. Please understand, that this is a LIFESTYLE party. There will be no pay-for-play. There will be no expecting Dommes to "perform" in certain ways. There will be many Dommes who just enjoy the kink and want to be in a room socializing with others while the men are naked.
  4. Do not pester Dominants for play! This is a relaxing event, surrounding just the joy of power exchange and CF/nm. NO ONE OWES YOU PLAY.
  5. Subs are NOT allowed on the furniture. This is just to increase the power exchange. Not because you somehow aren't human enough to deserve to be on it. We do have mats and cushions to sit and relax.
  6. Must use a puppy pad when sitting on anything, including the floor.
  7. Dominants so you know you have rules too: Don't be an asshole!

Don't let all the rules daunt you. This is just to keep us all safe and happy. Remember the overall purpose is a relaxed evening with a shared kink. Let's enjoy ourselves!

What equipment will you have in the space?

This particular venue has kink equipment! There are hard points and cuffs to be attached to, a cage, a bed, plenty of mats, a medical exam chair with stirrups, a massage table, and more.

After you've been vetted, you'll be sent the link to grab your ticket. Get Vetted Here. If you've recently attended an SME event (workshop, munch, party), you can message for the link to get your ticket!

Thursday (March 27th) at 8 pm is the last day & time you can request to be vetted to join this event. If you send a request for the form on Thursday after 8 pm, you may or may not receive it.