Plura

The Saboteurs of Sex

Good sex isn’t just about chemistry, it’s also about composure.

In moments of vulnerability, our minds activate protective patterns that can subtly (and sometimes spectacularly) change how we think, feel, and behave. These automatic strategies are designed to help us… yet they often sabotage connection, pleasure, and presence.

This interactive 30-minute mini-workshop explores the science behind self-sabotage and introduces the ten saboteur archetypes, the predictable mental patterns that shape how we respond to stress, intimacy, and uncertainty.

You’ll learn:

✔ Why and how the brain reacts to vulnerability

✔ How overused strengths become self-sabotage

✔ The ten saboteur archetypes and how they show up

Expect insight, humor, and the unmistakable recognition of your own saboteurs.

Registration (https://goodquestion.coach/the-saboteurs-of-sex) includes the mini-workshop, access to the fascinating Saboteurs Assessment, and the option to book a complimentary one-on-one Saboteur Discovery Session.

This workshop was adapted and presented on stage at the 2026 Ignite: After Dark talks in San Francisco. Your host is Dvorit Mausner, the relationship-obsessed founder of Good Question Coach (goodquestioncoach.com).