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Tiltillating Tea

Titillating Tea

Sunday, January 19th, 2-5:30 pm

An Afternoon Adult Tea Party with Food and Beverages Brought to You by Sexy Submissive Servers

 Do you long to serve the imperious and well-dressed?  

OR

Do you love to flirt by being a bit challenging and demanding?

This party may be your cup of tea!

   Titillating Tea is an adult tea party that celebrates power exchange and welcomes all genders and sexualities to explore power roles. This tea party is interactive theater with the option to attend as a Submissive Tea Server, a Dominant Guest, or a Curious Observer*. All experience levels are welcome.

PLEASE GET YOUR TICKETS EARLY. SEATS FOR DOMINANT GUESTS OFTEN SELL OUT (a week before the event), AND SUBMISSIVE SERVERS WILL NEED TO ATTEND A MEETING.  

BDSM play is encouraged and there will be an open play time--bring toys if you might like to use them. 

 Dominance demonstrations, humiliation play (such as human furniture and other objectification, C*N* and other undress), master-servant role-play, sensuality, massage, consensual BDSM, rope, etc.

Schedule:

Server preparation/training Google Meet call Thurs. Jan. 16 at 6:00 pm. 

Video call link: https://meet.google.com/zdb-hbty-pog

Sunday

Server arrival and prep: 12:30

Guest arrival & seating 1:45

Food service 2-3:30

Demos 3:00 on

Open play 3:30-5:30

Guest departure 5:30

Clean-up 5:30-6:30

Server departure no later than 6:30

Festive and Sexy attire preferred. Hats and Gloves not required.

PALs are not required for this event!

Allies $30, Others $45

Your donation helps this event to serve lovely food and beverages. (Shenanigans, giggles, and a bit of slap and tickle: FREE!)

Please contact the hosts to be aware of special dietary needs well in advance.

DISCOUNTS and VOLUNTEER positions are available, don't let a lack of funds keep you from the fun! (Servers are not the same as volunteers. Volunteering is fun and free but is back-of-house. Serving is a paid-ticket fantasy role interacting with guests. Need clarification? Just ask or attend the free training!)

WANTED Sexy Server Submissives

Be a Tea Server!

   If you want to be of impeccable service as you pamper, please, and obey, or, if you desire the opportunity to misbehave and earn a bit of punishment, or some other fetishy desire for attention to and from classy and demanding guests, come to the party as a Submissive Tea Server. Understand that attending as a Tea Server implies some amount of consent to be treated as a sexual object and a servant. The event will not be a free-for-all: Guests are expected to honor boundaries and play must be consensual. Tea Servers will create and wear placards indicating their identity/desires/boundaries and announce them to the group. Servers are required to attend a meeting/session to help prepare. On the event day, servers arrive early (12:30 or so) and stay until the venue is tidied. 

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 To come to the party as a Submissive Tea Server, to volunteer in an administrative or kitchen role, to provide yummy tea snacks or other supplies, to offer to do a dominance/submissive demonstration or provide other entertainment, if you need a discount or for questions don't hesitate to get in touch with Lady Vee: fleming.virginia@gmail.com or 415.308.8073.

The Covid safety policy requires that attendees be vaccinated and show a recent negative Covid test, tests are often available at the door for a $10 fee, but save time by testing at home and bringing a photo of your test result.

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Want to find out more? Trying to find the other hot perverts you met at a tea party? Go to the Fetlife.com group page: Titillating Tea and other Pervy Parties. The event hosts will happily pimp your pick-up play during the event, but connecting otherwise is up to you!

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Thanks for reading all the way to the end. Here are a few answers to your frequently asked questions:

Servers get a chance to eat and to rest. There are times the event gets very busy during set up and as the drinks and food start to go out, but please go at your own pace and take care of yourself. Servers' safety and even comfort are top priorities: the event is for you to explore or indulge in a fantasy role and to have an awesome time!  

Curious observers look just like dominant guests, are seated at the same tables, and are pampered accordingly. You are encouraged to try out acting dominating if you would like. If the submissive side of things is more your inclination, you cannot join as one of the servers during the food and drink service, but please indulge your subby self in free play time and offer other submissive acts as you wish. Not sure? You are most welcome to eat, meet people and see some interesting things...

This is one of the few events at Mission Control for which you do not need to be with a PAL. Your cooperation with the rules, expectations, and general high standard of safety. Pick-up play is strongly encouraged, especially as described as the parameters provided by the submissives, and generally is quite plentiful. Consent and negotiation are absolutely required: use your words, get others to use theirs, accept "no"s (and other indications of a poor fit) with respect and class. 

Submissives are not volunteers. If you are looking to attend for free or a discount, offering to be a submissive it not that! Submissives are there to explore their own fantasies and enjoy the event as thoroughly as the other guests. Contact Lady Vee for discounts, free tickets, and actual volunteer opportunities (admin, kitchen, set-up, tear-down, and other support) for at the event. (That said, if a someone who has a financial difficulty in attending also wants to be a server, that we can do!)

All are invited to attend the server meeting/preparation call. If you think a server role might be right for you but you are unclear, check it out.

The event cannot provide all the different varieties of restricted food options--if you have dietary needs, please use the above contact information and your hosts will do their best to accommodate.

The event is put on by non-professionals--this will be much more like being invited to an afternoon tea by your weird neighbors or loopy aunties than tea at the Ritz. (But you are much more likely to see butts and boobs and hear squeals of delight than you are at the Ritz--life is full of trade-offs.)

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