Transforming Conflict: Developing Understanding

Conflict is an unavoidable part of being human, but it doesn't have to be something you dread. While conflict often feels uncomfortable or stressful, it can be a powerful opportunity to deepen your connection with others. Stop avoiding conflict and start mastering it. In this interactive workshop, you won't just learn about conflict conversation skills—you'll feel the difference it makes to be truly understood. You’ll learn to listen with genuine understanding and experience the profound impact of truly being heard.

Melanie Rowen is a queer relationship anarchist, mediator and conflict coach who frequently trains individuals and groups on effective communication in conflict situations. A recovering lawyer, Melanie previously worked on queer civil rights in family law settings, including relationship recognition, issues involving trans and non-binary youth and their families, and issues facing LGBTQI elders. She mediates and teaches from the Understanding-Based Model of conflict resolution, which emphasizes consent-based process, supporting individual autonomy and honoring connection. You can learn more about Melanie’s practice at https://www.rowenmediation.com/.

Bekki Callaway (they/them) is a queer, non-monogamous mediator in the San Francisco Bay Area who works with LGBTQ+, non-monogamous, and other non-traditional families and allies. Their mediation practice is focused on creating collaborative solutions for family transitions that take into account the unique needs of each family and treat all individuals with respect, compassion, and kindness. You can learn more about their legal practice at https://www.newhorizonsfamilylaw.com.