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Under Her Heels: Stilettos as a Dungeon Implement

ABOUT THE PROGRAM

Under Her Heels: Stilettos as a Dungeon Implement

Control from the Ground Up

High heels are not just fashion. They are posture, presence, control, intention....intimidation ;)

In this class, we explore stilettos and pumps as fully realized dungeon implements. From precise pressure to sharp impact, from stillness to domination, heels become a tool for shaping sensation, directing power, and building dynamic connection. A single step can command attention. A shift in weight can change the entire scene.

You might never look at a pair of red bottom heels the same way again.

This is a dual-perspective experience that centers both sides of the interaction. Not just the person wearing the heel, but the person feeling it.

D-types / Tops will explore:

  • Using heels for control, restraint, and intentional pressure
  • Techniques for impact, teasing, and psychological intensity
  • Body language, posture, and femme authority as part of dominance
  • Building scenes where heels are the primary or only implement

s-types / bottoms will explore:

  • Sensation across the body through weight, pressure, and contact
  • Psychological responses to proximity, control, and vulnerability
  • Devotional dynamics and the experience of being under her heel
  • Communication, negotiation, and staying grounded during play

Together, we will work through guided exercises that build confidence, awareness, and skill. This class engages the full experience of D/s. Physical, emotional, and psychological.

Expect something sharp, intentional, and deeply felt.

This is about more than impact. It is about presence, tension, and what it means to be under their heels.

🖤 What We Will Cover

  • Heels as impact and sensation tools
  • Pressure play and controlled contact
  • Power dynamics and psychological framing
  • Body language and dominance through posture
  • Scene building with a single implement
  • Consent, negotiation, and safety in heel play

⚠️ Prerequisites & Notes

Wear clothing you can move comfortably in. Floor work may be involved

Tops/D-types:

  • Bring your own heels. Multiple pairs are welcome
  • Be comfortable with basic movement such as standing, walking, and balance
  • If you are newer to heels, consider taking a foundational class first

You may attend solo or with a partner

If unpartnered, be open to practicing with others

About our Presenter

Click Your Heels, by Alexandira

ABOUT THE PRESENTER

Click Your Heels is the creation of founder Alexandria Nichandros, providing body confidence coaching, movement workshops, “edutainment”, performances, and more. The mission is to help everyone Come Home To Your Body. Alexandria has been leading people in movement and dance since 1998, including one-on-one coaching, custom private events, and leading crowds of 100’s from the stage. Her mantra is #whenindoubtslowdown and her rally cry is "All bodies, All genders". Her style is fun, focused, approachable, and memorable. Her coaching work centers mind-body connection, body confidence, and self-love. Her dance work emphasizes improvisation and musicality, strength and flexibility. She wants all humans to experience divine somatic energy and be in partnership with our bodies.

ABOUT THE EXILES:

The Exiles is a 501(c)3 women- and queer- centered educational organization for all individuals who self-identify as other than cisgender man.

Individuals must be over the age of 18 years old and have a positive interest in BDSM.

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