A Pagans Paradise & Sovereign Love Exclusive 3 Part Event for Couples & Unicorns
Most couples fantasize about threesomes. Very few actually know how to do them well. This event is designed to change that.
Hosted by Danny & Vanessa (Sovereign Love NYC)
๐ Couples
The fantasies youโve whispered about in private can finally step out of your imagination and into the room! This experience is designed for couples and adventurous singles (Unicorns of all genders) who feel the electric pull of possibility โ the thrill of wondering what it would be like to explore desire with new energy. Learn new skills, enjoy playful discovery and flirtation, and live out your fantasies IRL!
We are building a space where curiosity and attraction can grow naturally. As the night unfolds, connections deepen, sparks fly, and the line between fantasy and reality begins to blur. For those who feel the heat rising, the experience may lead somewhere unforgettableโฆ because sometimes the wildest fantasies are just waiting for the right night โ and the right people โ to come alive. ๐ฅโจ
๐ฆ Unicorns (of all genders)
We are creating a safer space for you to meet couples in a respectful environment, where you arenโt treated like an object or an accessory, but where your desires and boundaries are honored and celebrated.
EVENT DETAILS
๐ Doors Open 6:45 PM (Doors close at 7:15 PM sharp)
๐ Threesomes 101 Workshop Begins 7:00 PM
๐ฆ Unicorn Speed Dating 9:15 PM ( doors open at 9pm, close 9:10 )
๐ Play Party 10:15 PM (Doors Close 10:45pm sharp)
โฐ Event Ends: 3:00 AM
๐Location: Private venue near Union Square (details in confirmation email additional info, check spam/promo folder)
๐ Accessibility: Walk-up venue
During our 2 hour workshop portion of the evening, you'll learn the emotional, relational, and communication skills to have the best possible experience!
Weโll explore:
๐ Why most threesomes fail โ Fantasy vs reality, couple privilege, emotional risk
๐ Jealousy & emotional safety โ Jealousy, triggers and emotional regulation
๐ Are you ready as a couple? โ Fears, desires, motivations
๐ Finding a unicorn โ Apps, communication, green flags, red flags
๐ Consent & boundaries โ Explicit consent, safe words, aftercare
๐ The unicorn perspective โ Unicorn Bill of Rights, power imbalance, respect and autonomy
This portion is about awareness, embodied learning, and building confidence in how you relate to others.
Then you'll meet potential partners in a consent-based Unicorn Speed Dating Event. After the workshop, couples and singles will have the opportunity to meet in a consent-forward social mixer designed to encourage connection without pressure.
๐ Conversation prompts about intimacy, forms of love, and how we express it
๐ฌ Community mixing & gentle self matchmaking for those who want partners for the Party portion
This is a low-pressure, fully clothed, friendly environment to meet others and build rapport before entering the third phase an optional play party in a respectful, consent-forward space.
For those who feel ready to take the next stepโฆ the night doesnโt have to end there. After the workshop and mixer, the space gently transforms into an intimate environment where connection, chemistry, and exploration can unfold naturally. Couples and singles who feel inspired are welcome to stay and explore in a playful, consent-forward atmosphere where respect, communication, and mutual pleasure come first. Whether you choose to simply watch, flirt, or follow the energy of the moment, the experience is designed to be sensual, safe, and unforgettable. โจ
For those looking to attend the Party we will have a mandatory orientation speech at 10:15 pm, where we will go over the intentions for the night, mutual desire and establishing healthy boundaries.
Come wearing an outfit that you feel sexy and comfortable in.
For the workshop and social, think date night.
Then, for the party, we invite you to change into something more intimate. Great options are lingerie, nightgowns, and fet wear. Wear something that represents your inner desires.
*Shoes are welcome everywhere but on the mats. Many of our guests opt to remove shoes for comfort.*
What to Avoid:
You can be turned away at the door if you do not put in effort
What to Bring:
INDEPENDENT VENDORS Bring cash and/or have venmo/cashapp ready to go)
Special Herbal Vendor Pretty Tokers will be present at the event. For more info on Pretty Tokers check out instagram.com/prettytokers.official
ABOUT US
At Pagans Paradise, we believe in creating a welcoming, joyful space for everyone to explore connection, dive into a range of educational resources, and nurture their authentic selves.๐ธ Connect with us on Instagram @pagansparadise.๐ฉ Join our newsletter at www.pagansparadiseNYC.com.๐ง Any questions or concerns? Email us at PagansParadiseNYC@gmail.com.Pagans Paradise has been fostering joy and connection in the community for 10 years.
Join the event chat, and connect with people before: https://plra.io/m/org/pagans-paradise
COSTS
You can choose to join us for:
The Workshop only, the Unicorn Speed Dating & Party only The entire experience (Workshop + USD + Party)!
Couple - Workshop + Speed Dating + Party (Good for 2) $160
Single - Workshop + Speed Dating + Party $80
Couple - Workshop Only (Good for 2) $80
Single - Workshop Only $40
Couple - Speed Dating & Party (no workshop) (Good for 2) $120
Single - Speed Dating & Party (no workshop) $60
21+ age to join.
LATE ENTRY & REFUNDS
To protect the space, late arrivals will not be admitted after doors close, and refunds or exchanges will not be provided. No refunds for this event.
IMPORTANT NOTICE
Pagans Paradise events are intended for educational and entertainment purposes, and attendees participate at their own risk. Some events may involve physical or emotional exploration, and by attending, you agree to take personal responsibility for your well-being. By attending, you agree to participate at your own risk, conduct your own risk management, and agree to hold the event facilitators and facility harmless for any type of harm that may occur.