Plura

VCPX Munch - November

Note: Please do your best to RSVP YES at least 24 hours ahead (preferably on Fetlife here) so we can give Denny's an accurate count and they can assign sufficient servers!

The VCPX Munch meets on the first Tuesday of every month in Ventura. Chat, catch up, and meet old and new friends alike. This is a great place to explore and get to know the community. Age 18+ only!

It's purely social: dinner and conversation!

Please note that there is NO play or sexual contact at a munch. This event is at a public restaurant with a vanilla setting. Do not come to this event cruising for sex or to excessively promote other events/groups. This includes using our guest list to message attendees inappropriately— there is no obligation to meet/go with anyone at this event.

We have the back section of the restaurant. All experience levels are welcome and we encourage you to bring and make friends within the community.

Respect privacy.

  1. Identifying details about who you meet here and what we talk about should be kept private.
  2. If you run into someone you know here from the vanilla world, the same applies— be sure not to share personal details about them. While it may be exciting to see someone you know, be mindful that they might not be.

New to the community? Never been to a munch?

Come out and join us! We're happy to welcome, teach, and inform new members of how to navigate the kink community safely. We recommend reading:

  1. Everything You Need to Know about Attending Your First BDSM Munch
  2. “Playing Well with Others” by Lee Harrington & Mollena Williams

Ask, don't assume: enthusiastic consent is required at all times.

Read more on VCPX's Policies and Code of Conduct.

Questions? Please send a DM to @Ruby_Ryder (on Fetlife)

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