Sep 14, 2025 10am-5pm
East Bay Community Space - Telegraph Room
507 55th St, Oakland, CA 94609
GET TICKETS HERE: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/write-your-erotic-handbook-tickets-1393372708279?aff=oddtdtcreator
Ticket price: $250 (Bonobo members get a discount!)
Event Description:
Talking about what you want in bed can feel daunting — and you're not alone. It's one of the most common struggles people have when it comes to communication. Maybe you’ve never had the space to explore your desires on your own terms. Maybe your wants feel mysterious, hard to name, or tangled up in what someone else has offered you. Maybe no one ever told you that the things you crave even have names.
Before you can ask for what you want, you need to know what that is.
Write Your Erotic Handbook is a guided, immersive experience designed to help you uncover and name your desires — from the subtle to the bold, the tender to the wild. This isn’t about writing a personal ad or trying to impress anyone else. It’s about getting to the heart of you.
In this one-day workshop, you’ll:
You'll leave with a personalized Erotic Handbook — a creative, written reflection of your unique turn-ons, preferences, and pleasures — whether you choose to share it with others or keep it just for yourself.
We’ll also make space for nuanced desires, including if you are kinky, queer, or non-monogamous. And yes, there will be a sexy playlist or two to keep things flowing.
This is a playful, profound day of coming home to your erotic self — with support, structure, and plenty of room to explore.
Things to know
Any questions please reach out to Info@askingforwhatyouwant.com