Monthly YBK Community Beach Bonfire Munch
Ages 21–39 only • Registration required • Location sent via email
Young but Kinky (YBK) is San Diego’s safe, inclusive, and welcoming space for kinksters ages 21 to 39.
Whether you're brand new to kink or simply looking to build community, our events are designed to help you connect with others in a fun, low-pressure setting.
Monthly Munch
Join us for our signature munch—a casual meetup at a bar that's friendly to large groups. This is a great way to meet fellow kinksters your age and build connections without any pressure.
Details:
• Vanilla attire only (this is not a play event)
• We occupy a section of the bar and chat casually
• No blank profiles or inappropriate pics
• IDs required – this is a 21+ venue
• We are a no kink-shaming, judgment-free zone
New to kink? Curious but cautious? This is a perfect first step into the community.
Friends not on Fetlife? Bring them too—just make sure they RSVP!
(June, July, August ONLY)
We’re bringing back the events that made YBK famous—our legendary beach bonfires!
Expect:
• Music & dancing
• Group games
• Sunset vibes
• Deep convos, beach blankets, and community fun
This is your chance to hangout at the beach and meet amazing people in the kink-friendly YBK community.
✔️ You must RSVP to attend.
The Event location will be emailed 2 days before the event. If you sign up after that, your email will be sent within a few hours of registration.
📬 Your confirmation email will also include a link to our Discord group—a great place to ask questions or find us the day of.
📣 Want to get involved? We’re always looking for volunteers—reach out if you're interested!
Join our private FetLife group: fetlife.com/groups/219140
Follow us on FetLife: fetlife.com/users/13271272
Questions? Message @SDYoungbutKinky on FetLife.
🎉 We can’t wait to meet you—at the bar or on the beach.