Weekly-ish Seeds | October 06, 2024 I Need A Self-help Book

Need A Self-help Book
 

Weekly-ish

I skipped sending this email last week. With the news coming out of Asheville, doing my “business as usual” newsletter didn't feel right. Truthfully, even a week later, I still don’t feel anything close to “business as usual” and this newsletter is quite sad.

 
quote source; https://icppd.com/the-11th-hour-prophecy-of-a-hopi-elder/
 

This is the Hour

It has been heartbreaking to see the photos and videos coming out of Asheville, NC, Tennessee, and all the other places impacted by Helene. I hope everyone’s community, friends, and family are getting the support and care they need. I have been compiling a list of organizations supporting people in Asheville. If you want to add any resources to this list, send them my way.

 

I can’t do it alone, and yet, I am still sold on doing it alone

The past couple of years have been a big wakeup call as I realize the scale community organizing requires to survive the new normal. My world perspective is rapidly shifting from “life is more fun with community” to “life is unmanageable without community”.

The thing that’s really getting me though, is that it doesn’t feel like we’re moving into a more communal reality. Bell Hooks highlights a similar trend post the Vietnam War “Confronted with a seemingly unmanageable emotional universe, some people embraced a new Protestant work ethic, convinced that a successful life would be measured by how much money one made and the goods one could buy with this money. The good life was no longer to be found in community and connection, it was to be found in accumulation and the fulfillment of hedonistic, materialistic desire. In keeping with this shift in values from a people-oriented to a thing-oriented society, the rich and famous, particularly movie stars and singers, began to be seen as the only relevant cultural icons.” (All About Love)

Similarly, in 2024, while our streets are raging with war, climate catastrophes, gender discrimination, expanding maternal care deserts, and where the majority of young people report experiencing profound loneliness, I’m being served instagram ads for AI hotties that will text me AI nudes and Mark Zuckerberg celebrating that he designed a Porsche Cayenne Turbo GT Minivan.

Side rant: I am upset by the mere fact that AI sexting apps are allowed to advertise IG, while any sexual content created by a human would be banned and censored.

 
donald duck sleeping with a sexist meme about why ai girlfriends are better than real ones
 

On businesses that sell community

I learned so much from reading Dave Booda’s writeup on ISTA and LGATs (Large Group Awareness Training). Dave goes through an extensive review of his ISTA experience, and how in his opinion, LGAT programs like The Landmark Forum, Fight Club, and ISTA, are mostly a classic “get rich quick” scam that doesn’t pay off in the long run. According to the article “ISTA doesn’t set people up for success in their real life. The result is ISTA essentially becoming people’s drug dealer.. the more desperate participants are for love and belonging, the more they will act like addicts jonesing for another training..”

As a past attendee of multiple LGAT programs and as someone building a platform for people to discover communities that offer personal growth and peak experiences, I see this a great invitation for reflection. Are we making choices that meet our core long term needs or just scratch the itch?

 
dinosaurs snuggling with the caption
 

So… where do I go from here?

The book store.

 

 

See you next week.

 

Noa Elan

Community Builder | Plura

 

 
 

 

Note: This newsletter represents my personal opinions and thoughts. I understand I may have unexamined views and I appreciate when people point them out so that I am made aware and can start thinking about them. When I make mistakes I am committed to learning about my impact on others and repairing. 

Contact me anytime: noa@heyplura.com

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