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The Art of Intimate Touch (For Couples)

Couples Connection Workshop: The Art of Intimate Touch

Ready to deepen your connection and improve communication with your partner?

Join us for a transformative evening where couples learn the art of conscious touch, clear communication, and deeper intimacy. This workshop focuses on consent, boundaries, desires, and intentions - using massage as a beautiful tool for connection and relationship growth.

What This Workshop Is Really About

Relationship Skills You'll Learn:

  1. Clear Communication about desires, boundaries, and needs
  2. Consent & Permission practices that build trust and safety
  3. Intention Setting for deeper intimacy and connection
  4. Active Listening through touch and verbal communication
  5. Boundary Setting that feels loving, not limiting
  6. Presence & Mindfulness in your relationship

Why Massage as the Learning Tool: Conscious touch teaches communication skills that transform every aspect of your relationship. You'll practice expressing what you want, asking for permission, giving feedback, and being fully present - skills that improve your connection far beyond the bedroom.

Your Evening Experience (3.5 Hours)

Ritual & Intention Setting (30 min)

  1. Sacred opening to create safe, connected space
  2. Each couple sets private intentions for the evening
  3. Grounding meditation and connection exercises

Communication & Consent Workshop (45 min)

  1. Learn practical tools for expressing desires and boundaries
  2. Practice asking for what you want with confidence
  3. Master the art of giving and receiving feedback

Conscious Touch Techniques (90 min)

  1. Step-by-step guided massage instruction
  2. Focus on connection, not performance
  3. Each couple works only with each other in private space
  4. Professional guidance with respect for your boundaries

Integration & Reflection (30 min)

  1. Process your experience together
  2. Plan how to bring these skills home
  3. Optional sharing with the group (completely voluntary)

Sacred Closing (15 min)

  1. Honor your connection and growth
  2. Intention for continuing this practice at home

What You'll Take Home

Practical Skills:

  1. Massage techniques that promote connection and relaxation
  2. Communication tools for discussing intimacy with confidence
  3. Consent practices that build trust and safety
  4. Mindfulness techniques for deeper presence with each other

Relationship Benefits:

  1. Improved communication about desires and boundaries
  2. Greater comfort with physical and emotional intimacy
  3. Tools for stress relief and connection you can use anytime
  4. Renewed appreciation for your partner and relationship

Frequently Asked Questions

Q: What exactly happens during the workshop? A: This is a structured learning experience where couples practice communication and massage techniques with their own partner only. You'll be in a room with other couples, but each couple has their own private space and works only with each other.

Q: What should we wear? A: Comfort is key! Many couples choose bikinis, underwear, or lightweight clothing that can be easily adjusted. Bottoms must stay on for this workshop. We'll provide robes, sarongs, and blankets for comfort and modesty. You can disrobe to whatever level feels comfortable for you both.

Q: Is this appropriate for all couples? A: This workshop is designed for committed couples who want to deepen their connection. We welcome couples of all experience levels - from those new to conscious touch to those familiar with tantric practices.

Q: How private is the experience? A: While you're in a group setting for learning, each couple has their own designated space. You only touch your own partner, and participation in any exercise is completely optional.

Q: Do we need experience with massage or tantra? A: Not at all! We'll teach you everything you need to know. The focus is on connection and communication, not advanced techniques.

Q: What if we feel uncomfortable during an exercise? A: Your comfort is our absolute priority. Every exercise is optional, you can modify anything to your comfort level, and you can take breaks whenever needed.

What Couples Are Saying

"We learned so much about communication in just one evening. The massage techniques were wonderful, but the real gift was learning how to talk about what we want and need." - Sarah & Mike, together 8 years

"I was nervous about the group setting, but it was so respectful and professional. We felt completely safe to explore and connect with each other." - Lisa & David, married 12 years

"This workshop gave us tools we use every week now. Not just for massage, but for all kinds of communication about our relationship." - Rachel & Tom, together 3 years

"We've done couples therapy and read books, but this hands-on approach to learning about boundaries and consent was so much more effective." - Maria & Alex, married 6 years

Your Facilitators

Shiva J is an Advanced Certified Tantra Educator, Kundalini Yoga Instructor, Somatic Bodyworker, and Certified Life Coach. While his personal journey with transformational work began in 2003, he has been professionally facilitating workshops and sessions for the past 5 years. As a skilled community builder and compassionate healer, Shiva brings a unique perspective by integrating mind, body, and spirit approaches. His work focuses on fostering deeper connection, intimacy, and self-awareness, enabling clients to overcome challenges and achieve their fullest potential. When not facilitating workshops, he enjoys building connections over dirty chai lattes, drumming circles, and exploring San Diego's scenic trails.

Rani Ranee is a holistic healing practitioner who specializes in helping individuals and couples deepen their connection through conscious touch and embodiment practices. With years of experience blending Western and Eastern healing modalities, she creates safe, sacred spaces for transformation and self-discovery. Rani's approach emphasizes self-attunement, healthy boundaries, and awakening the body's natural wisdom. She guides clients in releasing limiting beliefs around intimacy and embracing deeper connection with themselves and their partners.

Together, they bring decades of experience in conscious touch, relationship dynamics, and creating safe containers for intimate learning.

Workshop Details

Date: Saturday, July 26th

Time: 6:30 PM - 10:00 PM

Location: Private venue in San Diego, CA 92110 (exact address provided after registration)

Investment:

  1. Early Bird: $69 per couple (limited availability)
  2. Regular: $79 per couple
  3. Last Minute: $99 per couple

What's Included:

  1. Professional instruction and guidance
  2. All massage supplies (oils, mats, sheets, blankets, robes)
  3. Light refreshments throughout the evening
  4. Take-home resource materials

Group Size: Limited to 12 couples maximum for personalized attention

Ready to Deepen Your Connection?

This isn't just a date night - it's an investment in your relationship's communication, intimacy, and long-term happiness. Join other committed couples in a safe, professional environment designed for growth and connection.

Reserve your spot: [Registration Link]

Questions? Email: [your email]

Important: This workshop is for committed couples only. Advance registration required - no door sales available.

Perfect for: Anniversary celebrations, relationship tune-ups, couples seeking deeper intimacy, partners wanting better communication tools

Space is limited and filling quickly - secure your spot today!

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