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XOXOXO

XOXOXO

A Workshop on Healing Through Human Touch

This is an invitation to reconnect, feel, and be held…

Touch is not a luxury. It is a necessity!

As children, we needed loving touch to grow, to feel safe, and to know we belonged. That need didn’t vanish with age—it simply got buried under layers of shame, isolation, and cultural conditioning.

We live in a world that discourages affection, mislabels platonic touch as inappropriate, and often leaves us starving for contact. For many, days, weeks—even years—pass without being held, seen, or comforted in this most human way. In our touch-deprived state, even the gentlest accidental brush can trigger fear, tension, or withdrawal.

But there is another way.

The XOXOXO Workshop is a lovingly curated space to rewrite your relationship with touch and restore your nervous system’s capacity to receive affection with ease and joy.

This is not about romantic or sexual intimacy. This is about connection, healing, and nourishment.

Whether you’re single or partnered, touch-deprived or touch-curious, this experience will meet you where you are. Through playful invitations, consensual exercises, and a safe, guided environment, you’ll explore:

  1. The Art of Platonic Touch
  2. Giving and Receiving with Presence
  3. Nervous System Regulation
  4. Boundaries, Consent & Self-Awareness
  5. Connection Without Pressure

And yes… you’ll get to order off a real Hug Menu—choosing from warm hugs, side orders like back scratches, butterfly kisses, and more!

This is your permission slip to receive.

To be held. To be human. To heal.

Couples and singles welcome!

Limited to 12 pairings for this night so please grab your tickets before they sell out!

(Same sex couples welcome!)

Time:

  1. Doors Open: 7:00pm
  2. Ceremony starts: 7:30pm (no one admitted after event begins)
  3. Event ends: 11:00pm

Energy Exchange:

  1. $49 (Single)
  2. $69 (couples)

Click on the link below to purchase your ticket and get the location details: Please note: Tickets will NOT be offered at the door. Exact address will only be provided with your ticket purchase.

Location:

  1. The Kundalini Kastle Old Town San Diego, CA. 92110
  2. (Exact address provided with ticket purchase.)
  3. NOTE: We do not sell tickets at the door.

ABOUT YOUR FACILITATOR:

~ Shiva J is an Advanced Certified Tantra Educator, Kundalini Yoga Instructor, Somatic Bodyworker, Certified Life Coach, Licensed Clinical Hypnotherapist, and Master NLP Practitioner. Since 2003, he has been dedicated to transformational work, helping individuals and couples elevate their lives and relationships through profound healing and growth.

A skilled community builder and compassionate healer, Shiva J brings a unique perspective to his practice by integrating the mind, body, and spirit. He combines a wide range of modalities with his gift of insight to guide clients toward clarity, empowerment, and lasting transformation. His work focuses on fostering deeper connection, intimacy, and self-awareness, enabling clients to overcome challenges and achieve their fullest potential.

When not facilitating sessions or workshops, Shiva J thrives in building connections and celebrating life's vibrancy. Whether he’s enjoying a dirty chai latte at a local café, dancing ecstatically, playing drums at a circle, or exploring scenic trails, his passion for life is evident in all he does.

Shiva J is available for private sessions, workshops, and retreats, bringing his extensive expertise and warm presence to every interaction.

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