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glossary of sex-positive terms
BDSM (Bondage, Discipline, Sadism, and Masochism) is an umbrella term for a wide range of activities involving power exchange and erotic play between two consenting adults. It can involve physical pleasure such as spanking and bondage or psychological play like role-playing scenarios. BDSM is a consensual activity between two people where both parties are aware of the risks involved in order to achieve mutual pleasure and satisfaction.
The basic principle of BDSM is that one person takes on the role of Top (or Dominant) while their partner assumes the role of Bottom (or Submissive). The roles can be switched during different activities or for different sessions depending on what both partners are comfortable with. Each partner should always have full control over their own body and every activity should be agreed upon by all parties involved before they begin.
It is important to note that BDSM does not always involve pain or humiliation; it can also include sensual activities such as massage or light bondage. This form of sexual exploration allows couples to explore boundaries safely while taking into account each person’s individual needs, desires and limits. Many couples use this form of play to deepen their connection with one another through understanding each other’s likes and dislikes in an intimate setting.
Safe words are often used in BDSM play; these should be discussed prior to any activity taking place so that either partner may stop any activity at anytime without feeling uncomfortable or judged if they don't want to continue with it anymore . Respect for boundaries set by both partners is essential in order for everyone involved to enjoy themselves fully while still remaining safe at all times throughout their experience together .
In short, BDSM is an umbrella term covering all forms of consensual activities involving power exchange between two consenting adults who take full responsibility for each other's well-being throughout the experience . When done properly , this type of exploration can bring intense pleasure and satisfaction for both people involved
